Member Since: July 30, 2014
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Last Update: July 30, 2014
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. And lately I want to meet new people. I went out the other night and called someone to meet me at a club which was a guy I had met on a dating app and this was my first time meeting him. And I wanted nothing to do with him...I wanted to meet him and see what I wanted but I broke my own heart.. All I wanted was my boyfriend and I didn't want to be around the guy anymore. But even still my head wants me to wander and live and meet new people but my heart is comfortable and only wants my boyfriend. My boyfriend doesn't even know I've been feeling like this and I don't have the heart to tell him because I truly love him so much but I'm very confused and can't help but to cry, and I never cry, but I'm just so confused. Someone please tell me anything...Thankyou! (link)
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umm well I think yes it is time to move on. see the fact that you're feeling this way means that things with you and your boyfriend aren't exactly how they were before. if you were truly in love with him you wouldn't be in this position and you wouldn't want to explore. something's missing in your life right now and your current relationship isn't fulfilling that empty space. the reason why you thought about your boyfriend when things didn't seem to be working with the other guy is probably because your boyfriend has become like a safety net for you. probably what you feel with him is not love but just a sense of comfort. so I say talk to him about it, he deserves to know, cause see if the tables were reversed you would feel betrayed in a way if he didn't tell you right? but this is just my opinion you could agree or disagree. though the right thing would be to be honest. Best of luck! hope it all turns out well for you
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