Member Since: November 12, 2008
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Last Update: November 13, 2008
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i have this guy i go to school with that i have liked for a really long time. he has a girlfriend that goes to a different school not that far away. he and i have been friends for a long time but lately he has been very flirtatious and i can tell he likes me. i don't know what to do. i would like to have a relationship with him but i don't want to hurt this "other girl" or seem like i expect him to dump her for me. what do i do? should i tell him how i feel or let things go on the way they are? i am a 15 year old girl and he is also 15 and so is his girlfriend (link)
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You should tell him in a way that explains to him that you do have those feelings for you and that if he does have true feelings for this other girl he needs to stop being flirty with you. He needs to know that if he has no intentions of carrying out a romantic relationship with you he shouldn't lead you on in the way that he has. Plus your only 15 and there will be many guys that will do the same thing that he is. Dont be the other woman, but dont worry about her feelings. Its not you that is flirting behind her back its him. Hopefully if he is as good of a friend to you as you say he is he will understand and repect your feelings and make a change in his behavior or his mate choice to benifit you both. Good Luck!
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