Hey y'all. This is Kt!
I live in Texas (as yall can see!!!)
and I'm good at giving advice so ask me some questions and I'll help you as best as I can!!!
Thanks!!!
E-mail: blondiebabi27@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
AIM: FeLLxFruMxHeaVeN
Member Since: November 25, 2004
Answers: 5
Last Update: December 3, 2004
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I have been having trouble between the family if u know what i mean. Were thinking about moving, but im not okay with even though i acted sweet when i was told. Everyone else was okay with except me so i didnt want to go against the grain to avoid arguements. I really wanna find the courage to tell the family but at the same time i dont wanna be the one weighing down everyone to new experiences...have any ideas for me???? (link)
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Ok, if this is somebody I know, please tell me because this sounds like a situation that my friend is going through.
This is what I would do:
I would first confront my parents and tell them that you're not really happy about the whole "moving situation". Ask them if they can sit down and talk to you about it. Tell them why you don't want to move. Tell them that you don't want to disappoint the family but you have to tell them about it. I was about to move a while back and I was really upset about it because I didn't want to move, so I told my parents about it, even though I was scared to tell them. It all worked out fine and we ended up not moving. So I would basically just tell your parents about your feelings about moving, or if you're to scared to tell them in person, write them a letter or an email. I hope this helps!
~Kt
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Ok Katie, I really need your help because i've been battling this for a while and I can't seem to get through it. I am totally uncomfortable with myself. I've done everything, starved myself, made myself throw-up and ran 2 miles and worked out for about a week, but nothing works. I am really getting depressed and i don't what to do, but I know that you've always been there for me and I know that I can always count on you, and I'm sory if I ever leave you out of anything or if I totally turn my back on you, because I heard that wierd behavior happens in my situation. So I need your advice. (link)
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Ok, it seems like you really know me n I know you, but you dont have to tell me who you are. You shouldn't ever be uncomfortable with yourself. I hope this doesn't affect anybody elses questions, but I used to be annorexic. I hated myself and even considered suicide. I had to go to therapy every week and my parents would never leave me by myself, afraid that I'd try to lose weight by working out, or by starving myself. NEVER become belemic (or however you spell it) (but its when you eat something, and then throw it back up again.) I can seriously hurt yourself and damage your vocal cords. I know somebody that was belemic and now they can barley talk. Plus, back when I was annorexic, I was down to about 69 pounds (at age 12) and I almost had to be hospitalized. This is a very serious situation. To get rid of these depression feelings you need to seriously talk to somebody you trust.(Ill always be here if you need me) or, you can talk to your parents, a counseler, or you can ask your parents to get a phychiatrist for you (I had one, and she was wonderful, so if you want her name, please ask me)---- working out is fine, just so long as you dont over do it. First, you need some help with your body image. It's called a "distorted image" that you are experiencing and you need to get some help. Trust me, parents, friends that you trust, or a phychiatrist. They really help you with these things. I think that I know who this is, so if you are reading this, please tell me that its you and I seriously can help you. I've been through this before and I know how it feels. Please Please Please call me asap. 817 788 1436
~Kt
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Is it possible to change certain characteristics that you don't like about yourself? Recently there have been things that I've done that I normally wouldn't do that have made me and my bf get into fights. They're little fights, and we always end up resolving them, but in the end I feel like a complete idiot for making such a big deal out of certain things. I want to change the way I react to things, and the way I think about certain things. Do you think that's possible?? Any suggestions? (link)
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i dont think that there is any reason for changing yourself. consider the facts that you may be stressed out, or you need a change of something. getting angry at little things happen to all of us sometimes, mostly because we are either tired and crabby, in a bad mood, or stressed out about something and you have no other way to get your feelings out.
i would either talk to somebody you trust or write in a diary about your day and if you felt stressed out or anything. or maybe you just need a change of things, like, is your boyfriend making you mad? sad? angry? if so, i think that yall should take a break... if not, then i think you should keep going out with him, but trying to calm your thoughts whenever you start to make a big deal over something that isnt a big deal.
so in conclusion, i dont think you should ever change yourself for anybody, just take some time off from things and relax....
i hope it helps!
~Kt
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okay kt i have this friend who i think might like me and i am not sure though...but he had this girlfriend but he broke ^ with her...so i dont know if i should like him more then a friend or i should ask him if he wants to be more then friends...i need help :-/
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ok lets start.....
if he's your friend, then you may want to consider the facts of maybe if yall go out, then if yall break up, then your friendship could be ruined. (which is not good, ive had it happen before!!) but, if you like him enough to think that if yall go out, and then maybe break up, then yall can still be the friends like yall are now. i first off would just ask him (like in a casual conversation) "sooo... who are you liking these days?" and if he says "im not telling" or "you already know" then there is a possibility that he does like you. if yall are really good friends, he may just go ahead and tell you who he likes (hopefully you ;) )
if he says that he likes you or w/e, ask him if he thinks that yall could be more than just friends. if he says no, then just tell him that its okay, and maybe it will work out later. if he says yes, then yall can go on from there!
sorry if this letter is a little confuzing!!
i hope everything works out well for you!!!
~Kt
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kt i was wondering if u had a pig? well thats it i need ur advice asap!!! please help me KT :) (link)
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Okay Michael, enough with the pig stuff!!! lol
it's not a real pig, its a guinea pig! and its not mine!! lol its my sisters....
sorry for this stupid question yall, Michaels just being a weirdo!!!
~Kt
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