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SORRY THAT THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!I really, really, really like this guy(i know him really well), all my friends say we would be perfect together. We are both waiting till we get married to have sex, we both are christians and we both like the same things. The only problem is that he is 16 and my brothers friend and I am 13 and I think if me and Seth ever were to go out my brother would get mad and stop hanging out with him just so I wouldn't see him but my brother knows I like him and I think he knows that he likes me too. I just don't know what to do please help me I am so confused!
Signed,
Confused ;/
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First off...think about the 3 years difference and if you really feel comfortable with that. There's a huge difference between 13 and 16. Plus, remember--boyfriends come and go, but your brother will be your brother forever. I'd say as much as you like this guy, your brother should come first.
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I have this one friend, but she gets really annoying sometimes. She'll talk on and on, and i never get a chance to say anything, and im not the quiet type. She always dominates the conversation, and is always being bossy. Most of my friends think she's annoying too, but i dont want her to have no friends, but also dont want to be her friend out of pitty. what can i do? (link)
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Talk to her, definitely. You need to stand up for yourself...she may not realize she's doing it.
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I'm not sure but I may be a victim of emotional abuse. I've been with my guy since high school, more the half of a decade ago, and we have a child together. Now he doesn't call me names and put me down to my face, though he's come close before, but it's like whenever he's in a bad mood he takes it out on me, he blames EVERYTHING on me that comes to his mind. It makes me feel really low. I think he does it to make himself feel better but then I feel like total crap and I hang my head down and sigh for like hours. Sometimes I get so sick to my stomach over it. It's just this vicious cycle that keeps on going. He acts nice again and I love that person that he is when he is nice so I forget everything and am able to relax again for a little while. But when he changes faces again I'm like, "Oh why do I put myself through this, here we go again." I feel like such trash for putting up with it. I just love him so much, and I know he loves me but wonder if there's a part of him that hates me because he has to blame so much on me. And if I say anything when he is angry, ANYTHING, it makes him angrier and he doesn't listen to anything I have to say. His father treated his mother like this and I think he's following in his footsteps. I don't want my son to think this is how a man is supposed to treat a woman. So I'm just wondering if this is considered emotional abuse. Thanks. (link)
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Any situation that you feel uncomfortable is something you should not be in. Any situation like this, where he beats you down emotionally, is definitely emotional abuse--you have a right to feel good about yourself, because you are a wonderful, beautiful girl! Don't let yourself stay somewhere where you are held down. God bless, take care of yourself.
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Does piercing your belly button hurt?! and on a scale 1 to 10 ..10 being the most painful and 1 being the least please hurry!!!! (link)
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It doesn't hurt too badly...I'd put it as as "5". Keep yourself distracted, and you'll be fine.
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