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Location: NY
Occupation: High School student
Age: 15
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ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ). (link)
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Okay, it was a good idea to pull away, because you guys werent kissing because you really like each other, you were kissing because others wanted you too, adn that totally ruins a kiss. Kissing is taken too lightly, it should be as pleasant as possible. Anyway, Tell him why you pulled away, its REALLY important that you do. Also, tell him that you like him for who HE is , not for who his friends want him to be. tell him to ignore those friends, because they jsut want to see some action because they cant get any. thats the only reason they are pressuring him. Dont let him listen to them, make sure he know that. He'll really appreciate that the pressure is off to impress his friends when alls he has to do is impress you. and that wont be hard since you already like him.
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Ok i just turned 13 and im not matured yet.. all my friends are .. but they are all turning 14 soon .. there is hair down there and i see some white stuff in my underwear but at that docter checkup thing they said i would when im 14 or a freshmen , well im going into 8th .. im really small and flatchested soo whats goin on? (link)
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Dont worry, and count your blessings taht you dont have to deal with all the stuff your friends do, believe me, its a pain, sometimes literally, haha. And that white stuff is a sign that your period is actually coming soon. hurray! haha. And in 8th grade most girls mature, if you amture earlier than that, you kinda get upset cause you're still a kid. So this is your year hun, make it a good one, and flaunt what you ahve for now!
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this is weird but.. how can a person be gay? like.. is everyone born gay and they discover that they're gay later on in their lives, or do they somehow become gay from experiencing something? i'm 14/f, and i'm totally straight, i really dont want to be a lesbian or anything, but is there a chance that i might become one when i grow older? (link)
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Actually, homosexuality is supposedly a chemical imbalance in one's body. It is thought to be the absence of the horomones that make you attracted to the opposite sex, which is a necesity for reproduction. You can actually see homosexuality as the norm because it is natural for people to be attracted to the same sex, thats why girls and boys seperate themselves until they reach the age where the horomones kick in. This is usually the time when people discover they are homosexual, whether they reveal it or not is a different story. So, if you like the opposite sex, and you dont question yourself about it at all, then you are not gay. But most people who are homophobic are afraid to be gay and question themselves, but fear rejection and being made fun of, so they hide it and try to avoid anything that has anything to do with homosexuality. So i'm pretty sure you ahve nothing to worry about. And for the record, being gay or lesbian isnt wrong. Whoever thinks it is should get over it and accept people for who they are. It's just as normal as people ahving different skin colors, so why treat it differently?
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