E-mail: kitty_writes@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
Member Since: November 4, 2006
Answers: 1
Last Update: November 4, 2006
Visitors: 425
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I am 26 years old female...My boyfriend is a great guy the best boyfriend ever when he is SOBER....when he drinks hes a different person...hes mean to me and throws me around when i dont wanna deal with him....he has never hit me but he gets real rough with me and hits the door or will smash something...I'm scared i dont know what to do...he always says im the mean one or i hurt him but when hes on top of me i have to push him away he pins me down...i have talked to him about this but i really dont know what to do...i just got a place with him just 3 months ago and now i feel trapped...what should i do...does this happen to anyone else...how can i help him? (link)
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You can not change him. He is an alcoholic. Furthermore, he is dangerous, abusive, and oviously dosn't respect you. My advice: Move out-you shouldn't be living with your boy friend anyways. Call up your parents and/or friends and see if they can help you get back on your feet. Do you really think your future children deseve a father who drinks and turns abusive? Do you really think *YOU* deserve a husban who will treat you like this?
Get out sweety, you don't deserve this at all.
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