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does anyone know where i can find the seatbelt belts [for girls]? STORES please, not online.

i'm pretty sure Buckle used to have them, but i dont know if they still do?

& preferably not outrageously priced ones please. (link)
Tilly's sells them


okay
so i had unprotected sex...kind of. it didnt go in all the way but there could've been precum. this was beginning of february. well i was supposed to get my period on the 27th ish but nothing happened. this past sunday i let my boyfriend finger me. he usually used two fingers but he went up to three. he noticed after i was bleeding. so i assumed i got my period. but when i went pee later i noticed that it wasnt bleeding anymore. so i guessed he popped my cherry? but over the next few days i still bled. but it was only like, the size of my thumbnail. thinking it was over, i let him finger me again. and once again discovered blood after. but its not bleeding now.
what the hells going on? period or not? (link)
That sounds like spotting to me and that is usually a sign of pregnancy. I would go buy a home pregnancy test or go to a doctor to get checked out.


so i dated this guy for about 2 years.. i was in love with him. about 7 months ago he broke up with me. i was obviuosly crushed ive never been through more pain in my life! after we broke up we would still talk and he told me he still had a lot of feelings for me but he didnt know if he wanted to be with me or not. just about 2 months ago he told me he still LOVED me, but he actually just went away to college and he said he didnt know if it would work being an hour away. well about a month ago he got a girlfriend. it shocked me so much because we had still been talking and he told me he still loved me about 3 weeks before he started dating this girl. and the even bigger shocker was that it wasnt even somebody from his college, it was a girl from my town! it confused me, i cried really hard abuot it because why would he date her but he couldnt date me?! obviously i'm extremly angry about the situation and i hate him. i do. but for some reason my feelings are still here. i think about him all the time, and i dont want him i really dont beacuse he makes me so mad that he kept me hanging on for 7months for nothing, but hes still on my mind all the damn time! am i ever going to get over this? not being cocky but im a really pretty girl, and i meet a lot of guys but i havent been interested in any of them. its like this whole situation has a chain on me and i cant get out of it! im soo overtaken by it. i go out all the damn time, but in the end its all on my mind. its been a month and its still here lingering.. i just want help with how to get this off my mind, besides "go out" or "date somebody else" because i do go out, and i wish i could date somebody but im not interested in anyone else its nuts! (link)
I am going through the exact same thing! I know exactly how you feel, What I had to do it stop all contact with him and just try to continue to what you are doing. The pain may not go away right away but sooner than you think it will be easier. The reason you don't like anyone is maybe because your not ready to start dating again. Just try having fun and before you know it, it will get easier, maybe not fully over it, but it will be easier. You just have to be patient and give it time...


what are good songs
meaningfull
ones that really make you feel the emotion the artist is conveying
im into like alternative stuff anywhere from like mayday parade, dashboard confessional, secondhand serenade, the maine, etc things like that if yah get my vibe. i also randomly like michelle branch and taylor swift. ok well yeah any songs you suggest ill appreciate

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Sara Barielles- Winter Song


Well, lately i've been interested in reading (which never in my life has happened)and i've already read the books i want. Can someone tell me if there is a book/series like "Twilight"(Stephenie Meyer)or "House of the Night"(Kristen Cast). (link)
I love those two series!
Other books that are good to are

Vampire Kisses by Ellen Shreiber
Blue Bloods by Melissa de la Cruz
and
Night world
and Vampire Diaries by L.J. Smith

Hope you like them :)



okay, i need a song or a few songs that are like decribing a relationship that changed and saying that you want things to be how they used to be


any helppp?

thanks (link)
Dancing- ELisa


im so emotionally...wierd. i take the smallest things personally, and i freak out easily, and about everything. like if someone doesnt text or call me back with in a couple of minutes i get anxious that they dont like me, im always trying to please people so they dont reject me. so i;ve modified my self into an anxious, people pleasing, drone, and its wearing me out. how can i calm myself down in times like these? im stressed out from always worrying.

thanks! (link)
I know exactly what you mean. I have the same problem but I have a small case of anxiety and a little paranoia. I personally refuse to take medication. SO what I do when i start to get like that is I tell myself that they do like me or they wouldn't talk to you in the first place right? And sometimes if it gets too bad I take time to myself and think or read or listen to music it usually calms me down.... So you could just talk to a doctor about medication or just continue to tell yourself that there is nothing wrong because Im sure that your friends love. So just try relaxing. Hope this helped


here is a little about me and my situation
*18 female
*virgin
*been on birth control for about two years now
*i've had horrible discharge, it's clear but i have so much of it
*i've been to the doctor, asked her about it and there is nothing i can do
*i have to wear a tampon everyday AND a pantyliner because it's so bad
*i know using a tampon everyday is horrible but there is no other option, otherwise it will get all over the place
*i wear thongs all the time, don't know if you needed to know that but just a fact.

my question is, before i have sex i don't want to have a pantyliner on that just isn't sexy and if i don't wear a tampon my underwear will get all gross! i don't want to be like, i have to go to the bathroom because what if it just happens you know! even if it wasn't about sex and he was going to finger me or something i just hate having so much discharge and having that gross feeling in my underwear. and i don't want the guy to be like ok gross your underwear is all wet and nasty? does this happen to anyone else? also i don't know if wearing the tampon causes this but i have this weird smell from my vagina. i wash it with water everyday. it's not like HORRIBLE but i don't know if its normal? what are some suggestions for before i am "sexually active" i just don't know what to do.... (link)
Try drinking a lot of water.... It helped me because i had that problem over a year ago and now I drink lots of water. It hardly ever happens now. hope this helped




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