Theres this guy at work that I really like but I'm kind of shy and don't really know how to get a conversation going with him, and plus, I don't know for sure that he is single. Does anyone know a subtle way to find out if he is seeing anyone?
Well if you ever start talking to him and he does something kind of rude or off base, say something like "oh im sure your girlfriend loves that" and then he will either say yeah she does or i dont have one.
be flirty but subtle.
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Hi im 18/f i need a job and im really lazy and don't really want one, but nonetheless. My mom says i need to call and follow up like say did you get my application and whatnot, i applied to a dozen places online. is this necessary?
Yes. You want your name to stand out. I hire people at my job and if someone actually takes the time to call me I remember there name and put there application on the top of my pile. But when you call just say something like "I just wanted to thank you for taking time to interview me. If you have any further questions I would be happy to answer them." If you are to shy to call, just send a thank you card, they are effective as well.
--Syd--
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The other day i went to go get a haircut;
you know, since i am graduating this friday and i thought .. what the heck why not get something dramatic.
i asked to get short bangs.
bangs that were belowe my eye;
when the lady cut it.. she cut it above my eye, and not only that .. my EYEBROW.
so.. my bangs are pyscotically SHORT and i have no clue how to style my hair now.
I tried putting them down and strainging them and have a little wave to it, but it makes me look so retarded! i feel like a little girl. Just a doll and a lollipop in each hand and i'd be complete.
...any ideas?
should i put them in pins; and how to put smalllllll shorrrrtt bangs in pins;
clip; and how big and what not?
i need to look very fancy friday, so i cant have something to classy and ... normal..
you know.. i just need little tips and advice.. not too much. i just need to know by friday night.. i keep getting very self-concious ):
i hate my hair cut.. lets just say that..
-- Clip in hair extensions are always a possibility.
-- I would get some bobby pins and pull them back. Kinda as if you were doing your hair half up half down. Push up on the hair and tighten the bobby pin to give it a poof. This is a very popular style right now.
-- Also flashy earrings and good accessories will take peoples attention off of your hair and onto your sense of style. The same goes for dramatic make up.
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I have thick, kind of curlyish or wavyish hair. I'm getting it cut up to my shoulders, and I was wondering if thinning it out would make it less wavy? thanks
I have the exact same hair type. Thinning it out wont reduce the curls but it will help make the management easier. NEVER get layers though. It will be a complete disaster. I did that once and it was awful. One day when you aren't planning on going out wash your hair and put some gel in your hand and scrunch your hair. Our hair type makes this style look amazing.
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I'm your typical 14 year old freshman girl almost done with her first year of highschool(thank god). Last year though, I had REALLY high self esteem which is weird because I had braces and wasn't as pretty now, some people even called me too cocky. Over the summer, my friends and i would go to the mall and they would always be the ones to get the guys and it really lowered my confidence ever since then for some reason. Plus, this year I dealt with a lot of family issues, my parents were separated for awhile but are together now. However, now we have financial trouble and it's really tough for all of us. Just everything changed this year and I can't seem to get past it all. I gained a few pounds, I want surgery on my nose, blah blah blah. I can't get a job, no one wants to hire me. I don't get along with my dad. I think I'm pretty but not to the point where a guy would fall head over heels for me. I want to go back next year improved, with much more confidence. Do you think it's just a typical phase of a freshman? It's just I use to be that hysterical girl who cracked everyone up and I was so outgoing even though I'm generally a guiet person. I just want to be who I used to be and don't know how to get back. Please don't think I'm a drama queen or anything because I'm really not like this whatsoever. I haven't talked about this to anyone about I have felt this past year. Any advice/comments would gratefully appreciated.
High school is hard for everyone. Even the popular girls. Your family issues can definitely take a toll on how you feel, as well as your financial situation. First of all you don't want a guy to date you for your looks. You want a guy who loves you for your personality. But if you want other people to believe your sexy you have to believe it yourself. Being attractive is all about self confidence.
1.) Flirting never hurts
** You can up your allure by putting yourself out there. Being flirty is a way of letting a guy know you're interested without making a fool out of yourself. Some tried and true pointers: Maintain eye contact for a few seconds to let a guy you've never met know that you've noticed him. Also "accidentally" making physical contact, whether its using his shoulder to steady yourself or picking an imaginary piece of lint off his shirt does two things. It gauges his interest in you and lets him know you're comfortable around him. These are two key things in any relationship.
2.) Dress to Get Noticed
** Take a chance. Be adventurous. Case in point: Not long ago on a girls night out me and a few friends decided to dress for excess. We thought lets get dressed up and go glam rock and make a really fun night out of it. So we did and as soon as we walked into the place people started to look. Three of my friends met someone that night! The message: have fun with your look and don't be afraid to stand out.
3.) Be Ready
** Keep a "sexiness kit" in the car or in your purse so that you have what you need when you're faced with a situation that calls for some extra prepping. The essentials: Sample perfume, lip gloss, mirror, mini brush and powder. Knowing you look hot also boosts your all around confidence.
4.) Channel and Icon
** When looking for a little style inspiration I recommend browsing the web. Google movie bomb shells. My own idol is Jessica Simpson. i used to watch newly weds over and over. I studied how she walked, dressed, talked and her expressions. I think she is gorgeous so if I don't feel so pretty I pretend that I am Jessica Simpson. It makes me feel hot because I know she is.
5.) Be a Little Mysterious
** If you strike a guys curiosity it is guaranteed that he will come back. Guys can get bored very easily. A relationship has to have somewhere to go. Don't always act available and accommodating. Be vague occasionally, and tell him you re busy but would love to get together another day when he asks you out. Also wear something saucy underneath your clothes like lingerie. It will boost up your personal confidence.
6.) Stop Obsessing About Your Flaws
** Instead of focusing on what you think are the negative aspects of your body (braces,nose), realize that they give you character. Look in the mirror and tell yourself that you look good and once you look in the mirror and think you look hot, dont look again. You will carry that sense of sexiness all night.
Sexiness is all about confidence. Realize that any guy would be lucky to have you.
--syd--
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I've tried a few different kinds of mascara(various covergirl mascaras and rimmel)and so far, rimmel has been my favorite because it doesn't clump my lashes. However, after a few hours, I've got mascara smudges underneath my bottum lashes(not from wet mascara rubbing off but rather what seems to be dry mascara flaking off). Can anyone suggest a good mascara that doesn't clump and, most importantly, doesn't flake off and smudge?
My favorite mascara is maybelline blackest black. It comes in a green and pink tube. It makes lashes appear thicker and longer. It is VERY wet when it comes out of the bottle so you have to apply it very cautiously but once it dries you will have no problem.
--Syd--
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Me=f/16
him=m/17
we've been dating for almost a year but we dont have sex. We do everything but sex. When we are laying in bed he does alot more to me than i do to him i will maybe rub his belly, play with his hair, kiss him, play with his Penis, give him blojobs and handjobs but not every day its rare or when im feeling like being nice.
I dont do much for him and he does alot for me and i feel bad is there anything i can do to make any of them things better for him and what else can i do to him that he will love!
we are thinking about having sex soon so i also need maybe something that might turn him on enough for us to do it and make it the most amazing time ever!
please help!!
Well I can totally understand where you are coming from. I used to have the same problem but don;t worry it isn't you. Men are naturally more horny than girls. Hints the fact they are much more willing to put out.
Women aren't the only ones with a powerful G-spot. A guy's prostate - the walnut size gland under his bladder - is the ultimate magic button to push if you want to blow his mind in bed. To tantalize it, partway through sex or oral sex, rest two fingers against the swath of skin between his testicles and anus. At this point his prostate is situated above your fingers, inside his body. So by applying pressure here your indirectly rubbing his g-spot. When you sense he is enjoying this attention rhythmically press the area (one pulse every second) until he climaxes. If during oral let him go but if you are doing this during sex stop before he climaxes so the release will be longer.
But you want your first time to be special. So make sure there are things that seem sentimental there such as candles, roses, etc.
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