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Dear Sir,
I was divorcy and before 4 months I once got married. I have left my first wife because she was very crual. On first night she told me that she has came here to marry me but she has left her boyfriend at her village. In my 5 years marriage with first wife we have never enjoy our physical relatinship and my life was distroied like this. I only believe in love so I have given her divorce and given her all wealth and house I had.
Then In search of love I have got a woman who was divorcee and she has got divorce before 12 year as her her information she has left her husband because he was having relationshop with another woman.
My first month of marriage was good. but in second month husband of my second wife got in tough with her and both fell in love once again. Now she told me that she loves him only and cant live without him. She also doesn't want me to live but she wants to have relationship with him because her ex husband is father of her daughter.
She used to harras me daily. She is talking to him daily and when I caught her talking to her ex husband she said that she feels his love only and none is having courage to say anything to her.
I have decided to die buy now I cant understand what to do now.
I am working in multinational company and taking good salary but my wife wants love of her ex husband only.
Kindly advice what should I do now. I have just purchase house for her which is on loan.
Thanking you,
Regards
Tiger
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Stop looking for yourself between the legs of women that leave their husbands. It is only when you no longer need them that a good one will appear. If you think that you can attract a good and loyal mate my buying them houses they will most likely take your house and your soul.
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My hair is diry blond and shoulder length like g hannelui'so. However my hair is FRIZZY. I take a shower in the morning and even tried to blow dry it straight today. ITS NOT WORKING. I don't want to have to straighten it every day, so do you know any tricks that'll keep hair straight all day . Thanks! (link)
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The idea that you have to buy more stuff to deal with cosmetic and hygiene issues is something that has been ingrained in us by people who make a profit off of this stuff. Often times we are buying one thing to cover up damage from something else we bought. There are 3 people in my home with long hair. Me my wife and my daughter. I stopped using shampoo and conditioner a couple years ago after reading about alternatives. I never felt like all these expensive scented chemicals were good for me anyway. A few months later my hair was looking better than ever then my daughter decided to give it a go. Her hair has not been cut in over 10 years. It is now amazing to see. My wife refuses to try it and guess what.. her hair is dry brittle and frizzy. My daughter and I use a little baking soda to wah our hair. It cleans it without stripping away all the natural oils. Once a week we condition with a little vinegar. That it... nothing to it. I suggest searching "no poo" in your favorite search engine to get more details.
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I was raped last summer and I just can't get it out of my head. It was the worst thing that has EVER happened to me. I was staying with my dad at his house and I went to hang out with some people there and when I was walking home this guy totally raped me. I was frightened and I'm still not over it even though I told both of my parents immediately.
The main reason I'm having problems dealing with it is because I had an orgasm when I was raped. It was not the first time I had actually had sex but it was the first orgasm I had experienced. I didn't like the sex though! I didn't WANT to be raped or anything! I don't know what happened and why I had the orgasm. I feel so stupid and disgusting. What is wrong with me for doing that?!
How do I get past this and move on with my life? I keep reliving this experience and the sensation of the orgasm. It's horrible and I don't know what to think of myself. Please help... (link)
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I am posting this on the chance the OP is still struggling with this. It is a subject I have studied intimately. I am not a Dr though I have little respect for the current state of the profession anyway. WittyUsernameHere touched on something that I feel gives insight to something that is always ignored. The human body is designed for rape. I believe the Gspot and the prostate being in the same relative position is no accident. The behavioral impact when either are aggressively stimulated are similar aswell. It tends to take the fight out of the victim. It also opens the door for bonding between the attacker and the victim. I think it is called Stockholm syndrome today when this occurs. As an animal the human survived by the manufacture and application of light hand tools carried over long distances. As hunters we are endurance pack hunters. Our way of locomotion being bipedal makes our gate more efficient. I psych 101 they taught us that a womans breasts look the way they do to mimic the rear cheeks. There is no doubt that the image of both are very "magnetic". Now keeping all of that in mind imagine running across the savanah 20000 years ago. I have a feeling young fertile humans would have done alot of racing. I also suspect look at the cheeks up ahead would make for great motivation. Once a rape is in progress you have lost the fight. I feel biology gave us a coping mechanism. First it's hard to fight somebody during an orgasm. Since you are already overpowered fighting simply increases chances of injury. Prior to civilized men who would fight such activity the victim would most likely have had to continue to be exposed to the attacker. One chemical in the body that has major impact is Oxytocin which plays an important role in the neuroanatomy of intimacy, specifically in sexual reproduction, in particular during and after childbirth. It is released in large amounts after distension of the cervix and uterus during labor, facilitating birth, maternal bonding, and, after stimulation of the nipples, lactation. Both childbirth and milk ejection result from positive feedback mechanisms. We also have this stimulation when we hold a puppy of have an orgasm. If the aggressor is on the back of the victim during intercourse the gspot or prostate is likely to be heavily stimulated. This is exactly the position that presents the least risk of injury to the attacker. YOu did not want it to happen but it did. YOu did not want it to feel that way but ut did. You feel like you should be ashamed because society expects you to be ashamed for deriving potive stimulation from it. Well I say ignore them. Those feeling were natures medications and if guilt were not involved it would have reduced the stress of the situation a little rather than increase it. I do not feel a rape is any more damaging then getting beaten violently. However we are supposed to easily get over one but the other is somehow supposed to be worse. It is not. I am sorry these things happen to anyone. But believe me that guilt will hurt you far more than the rape did if you can not let it go. I hope you are healing.
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