Member Since: May 6, 2012
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Last Update: May 7, 2012
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My girlfriend is addicted to vicaden and three weeks ago, I found out from my bank statement that she stole almost $900 dollars from my ATM card. I confronted her and she told me she wasn't going to tell me if i never found out. She is feeling guilty and very sorry. She has secret texts, phone calls and acts strange when I ask her what she did for the day. She is always yelling at me and picking fights, when she is wrong and I bring it up. I have always felt that she is hiding somthing but I could never figure it out. I try to meet her needs as much as I can, but I am a graduate student and I do the best I can but she is unsastified. I found out this week that she stole 65 dollars from me and told me she forget to bring it up and when I asked about it on Friday, she wanted to break up, the second time she wanted to break up over me giving her money or she taking it without my permission. I feel like I am her golden ticket and she is just hanging on for herself. She has kids and I get along with them. Our sex life is unsatisfactory and she always complain when she intiates it and i go for it. I feel that she loves me and I love her too, but I am confused on what to do. I tried working things out but its like she is always picking fights and acting like a "clutz", her way of calling the stolen money, the lies and disrespect. She says her mom put gas in the car when she used my car to do so. The trust is not there and everytime I am at work, I wonder what she be doing. Any help or advice would be helpful. I am 24 male and my girl is 30 female. (link)
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I am in the same boat but i have lost a lot more money i have slowly lost over 16000 dollars in less than 8 months, my gf did this too me when ever i went out with my mates the next day she would secretly take money out of my bank card and i would think that i was taking too much out and i wish i had checked more often.... when i found out i was so mad i could have killed her she made out as if someone had black mailed or some bs, so i told her parents and she is slowly paying it all back with a new job now, if i went to the police they prob wouldnt do much and she wouldnt be able to work to pay it back as of record jail time... This has been put down as a life learn lesson and to check the bank account properly keep your receipts, also get her to sign and write out it has been done for proof
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