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Hey, I'm SquidFoLife (aka Melissa) I like to look for advice so I made an account just for funsies!
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I am a middle school girl and I suffer from severe depression. I experience suicidal thoughts on a regular basis, and find it hard to go for a night without either crying, self-harming, or making an attempt at my own life. I have been bullied for appearance, sexuality, and various other things. I only have one friend, who often times gets me depressed as she also suffers from severe depression. I have attempted to make more friends many times, but to no avail. I'm too scared to tell anyone or ask my parents for a psychologist. What should I do? (link)
I'm in Middle school too and I have a friend very much like you. I don't know what it's like to face suicidal thoughts but I can tell you this, It doesn't matter what other people think; It doesn't matter what other people say; All that matters is that you are you! and that you feel confident about who you are! Last year I had no confidence in myself. I learned that having no confidence in myself led me to thinking negatively. Then, this year, I realized it doesn't matter what people think, it only matters what you think about yourself!

HAVE THE BEST DAY EVER, BEAUTIFUL!


Hi I'm June and I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17 soon to be 18. You've probably heard this sort of situation tons of times but my boyfriend wants to have sex and we've had this conversation multiple times of how I feel I'm not ready and I have told him my decision was no and the other night the subject came up again and I told him I wasn't ready but he wasn't really accepting my answer and he was like if you trust me you'll let me do it. I trust him a lot and I really like him and he knows that but I myself just don't feel ready and he kept pushing for me to change my mind and I gave in and said I'd have sex with him and now I'm gonna see him sometime this week and he wants to do it, idk what to do I'm scared and I'm not ready to have sex but he doesn't want no for an answer what should I do. I love him a lot but I'm just not ready, any advice is helpful. (link)
Honestly, if this guy doesn't respect that you don't want to do it with him, he's just not right for you(in my opinion). When my mom was your age she was dating this guy for awhile and then he wanted to do it and she was like "no way, Jose!" so he broke up with her, but she didn't care because he didn't respect that she had her own choice about it.

Hope I helped! :D


I'm a 12 year old atheist girl. I'm not throwing shade to christians, because some of the ones I've met are good people, but why do people think christians are so perfect? In America, where I live every politician from Trump to Hillary has to profess their love for the bible to get a shot. Ted Cruz said he's a Christian first an American second. Imagine if a jewish person or a Muslim politician said that (as if Muslims have a chance) why is there god written on everything. Why must god be mentioned in the pledge? I've been called a "dumb shit" by someone for not believing when the evidence is "I have life" I responded I have life because my parents had sex. You see, Christians go around bashing everyone else's religion, then when we respond, we're close minded bigots and must drown in their Christian tears. A person I can't stand said it "makes sense" that I'm an atheist. This could either be regarding the fact I'm big on liberalism, or that I swear a lot. And here's another thing, how come with muslims lately, we are talking about banning them and making them wear special badges and closing down mosques for the action if isis (1% of muslims) why did we never talk about closing down churches after the crisis of priests molesting young boys, or banning Christians over the kkks, and making them wear badges because of the nazis, after all Hitler was catholic and stated his movement's christian (this stuff shouldn't happen to muslims or christians, don't get the wrong idea) and jewish people are the majority in religious hate crimes. I've met jewish people, muslims, atheists, and agnostic far more moral than some Christians. Also minorities like pagans, Jainism followers, hindus (mocked by people in bindis), etc are always getting attacked for being satanic? Why are Christians so loved and everyone else hated? (link)
I'm a Mormon and 12. And we don't think we're perfect. At church meetings we talk about how we can become more perfect, but we do not think we are absolutely perfect. I bet Donald Trump thinks he's perfect tho

(This doesn't really answer your question but I just wanted to verify a few things)

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I'm torn between buying two pairs of tennis shoes. I can't decide on which one I prefer! Which pair looks better?

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I like the Gold and White one!




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