Member Since: June 15, 2012
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Last Update: June 15, 2012
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Okay i'm 12/f about to turn 13 in 2 weeks =] ! I really like this boy and yesterday i went to his house to hang out and i d k if this is slutty or what ? Well we was over there watching the Grudge and i was just laying by him, then we like moved to the floor and all the sudden he leaned over and we started making out. I like got on top of him and we like started having dry sex with are clothes on. Well he knew my turn on spot is my neck so he was kissing my neck and i just got really in the mood so he rolled over on top of me and we kept on doin it. Well then we stopped cause we heared someone upstairs so we were just laying there. And i let him finger me. And i was giving him a hand job all night !! Like every minute. Then hes like how bout you suck it for meee ? and i was like omg i never sucked one before soo yeah.. but we went downstairs but then we came back up after we did some more stuff.. okay now heres where it gets bad. We were laying on the couch and i like sucked his dick about 3 times and he wanted moreee. but we didn't have a condom . Well he fingered me again and left a huuuge hickey on my neck. Wow thats alot of stuf. Do you think thats slutty and just give me some advice on what i just told you . I feel slutty and guilty and i feel like hes useing me. (link)
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Okay honey, let me start by saying that I am almost 16 and me and my boyfriend JUST got to the stage you're talking about and we've been together for almost a year. Obviously you need to figure out what you're comfortable with.
I understand that you're a horny teenager, and I understand that desires go back and forth. Some days I'll be dying to have sex with my boyfriend, other days I'll think it's repulsive (and more importantly, how much it'll hurt!). I get that. But you need to remember the consequences of starting this so young. First of all, it will hurt. Like a bitch. Not to mention you won't even start feeling pleasure until the 3rd time or later. Trust me, if you wait until you're older, it will be so much more special.
So to answer your question, no, you're not a slut, but be cautious with this boy. Boys talk. You don't want the wrong words to get spread about you.
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