Member Since: March 20, 2008
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im 16 and im pregnant with my boyfriends baby.
i need a lot of help.
im NOT getting an abortion so thats out of the question, even if my boyfriend left me.
heres my backround information.
THIS WAS NOT A MISTAKE. I WANTED TO BE PREGNANT! my birthdays in early december, im a softmore, im currently living with my mother (hoping to move in with my dad) *parents are devorcing*, i have a dog that i will not leave without, i DONT have a car or licance YET, i come from an above middle class family, im a varsity cheerleader for my high school and i LOVE it, my moms sister had a child at 16 so my mom is always warning me not to, im a only child, and lastly, my parents are TOTALLY over protective.
here are the things i need advice on...
-how to i tell my mom
-how do i tell my dad
-am i too young for a house/apt. with my boyfriend (same age)
-how will i finish high school/ go on to collage
-should i start work/get a job
-what do i do about cheerleading. do i have to quit
-what should i do with the child while in school
-could i get home schooled for part of the pregnancy
-how can i hide the bigness
-how where do i plan everything
-how do i get parents support
-how do i get friends to understand
-how will friends throw baby shower
-how hide it from friends parents
-will parents but baby stuff or make me pay for it
-any other things that i need to know.
-if its a girl/boy
-baby names
although this not a "planned" preg. its not like it was like one day, OH IM PREGNANT. we decided this. and its a big responcibility but i feel we can handle it. please, i need as much help from anyone and everyone including boys, and girl, other teenage mothers, and older mothers. anyone who can help me. it would be greatly appriciated. thank you. (link)
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You still need to grow up and experience many things in life, only make you a good parent later on.
Ever thought of having your child adopted. You can always get your baby back 18 years later. I found a cool site for parent the other day www.goodparentclub.com.
Cheers,
Skywalker.
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Maybe i should not be going to you but this is big and i just have to ask. I chose sex as my topic because they did not have teen pregnancy. I am 15 and obviously a girl and i had sex with a 15 year old and then IT broke and so now i am about 2 months in. I do not want an abortion so any advice on becoming a parent.... By the way... my boyfriend left me and my mom knows
Signed,
Gonna be in pain (link)
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It will be a mistake if going for abortion but having a child so early will not allow you to grow up and gain life experience to be a good parent later on. You can't afford it either. A kid will cost lots of money.
Second option, You can have your child adopted and 18 years later you can have it back. This way, your child is cared probably and you have time to grow up too. You may try this resource: www.goodparentclub.com
Best wishes,
Skywalker.
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