Member Since: October 7, 2013
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also is this feeling weird.
my mother is currently in jail until February for a financial crime and I am her 14 year old daughter. My dad said to find and write her a card to send her there since her birthday will be coming up. I have no problem doing this but some would say it is a bad thing since I would be supporting a criminal. Personally since her crime wasn't against me I think it is OK to support her in some ways like potentially sending her some books or something. If I do decide to send a card what should I write in it (I am horrible at thinking up more than one line to write) and was thinking of getting one of those jail themed related cards on the internet but then it might seem I am making fun of her, though I know she won't mind being teased like that
also, is this weird, I have talked to my on the phone while she is there and for some reason I feel more comfortable being open with her about anything now then when she was actually here. Any reason why I would feel that way now? (link)
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I think you should definitely send her a card. No matter what she has done she's your mother, the person who brought you to this world. As for "some would say it is a bad thing since I would be supporting a criminal" don't care about what they say, it's your mother and she loves you.
As for what you should write in it:
-Say how much you miss her and how you're looking forward to spend more time with her after she gets out of jail.
If you do decide to send those jail themed related cards and you're sure she won't mind, then do it. Who knows if she won't actually have laugh at it and find it fun.
Finally as for why you feel more comfortable to being open to her about anything it might be because she is not present in your daily life so you feel like you should share with her all of what you've been up to. And you don't see her often so you feel like you should make up for that time by being more open to her?
Much love to you, I hope this helped a bit. :)
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My boyfriend tells me he loves me all the time, but I'm kind of wondering if he has feelings for his bestfriend (His bestfriend is a girl). He always talks about her and he said that she comes first before everyone else, he would die for her, etc. I know I should trust my boyfriend, and I do - it's just it seems like he might have feelings for her. Any advice? (link)
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Well, it does sound like he has strong feelings for her. But do not get alarmed just yet, ask him why she is so important to him. But don't sound jealous or something. So he said he would die for her, in my point of view it I'm pretty sure he means that she means a lot to him. Maybe because she had a big impact on his life long before you were together or even met her. If you're feeling insecure then talk to your boyfriend, it's worse than being left in the dark wondering what may be happening.
Good luck :)
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