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Hey I'm Sam I was put on this planet to give good advice and thats what I'm here for. I'm 13 and go to Forestwood Middle School. All your questions are safe with me.I wouldnt tell anyone ssssssssshhhhhhhhhh.

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i'm going out with this guy...n i really like him...but something keeps bothering me...like does he really like me or does he jus wanna go out with me so he can make out n do other kinds of shit...wut should i do?

ok try talking to him about this and ask him if he really likes you or if he is just using you to get you to do things with him. if you feel as if you dont have the confidence to do that you can try talking to his friends about how he talks about you like if he is talking about doing stuff with you or saying that he really likes you things like that. I hope i help.
-Sam-

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i was having sex then my condom broke and i didnt have anymore sooooo i didnt use one and now shes pregnant. oohhhh what should i do :(

first off you need to let your parents know about it then you might want to go and see a doctor about it and the person who got pregnant can either keep the baby if she is old enough that she can pay to buy stuff for it or if the parents will pay for it or she can get an abortion but either way it up too yall. and tip for next time find a better condom that wont break hope i helped.
-Sam-

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whos this jensen person thats in your profizzle?

he's my boyfriend and he means everything to me and i love him alot!
-Sam-

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skaterz r sexy!!!!

heck yes they are

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alright-
so this guy hes really sweet and everything i just dont like him in the way he likes me i didnt mean say sure when he asked me out he just looked really sad, i wasnt expecting it so i kinda freaked out and felt bad saying no. like this other guy so what do i say to him i dont want to hurt his feeling but i really dont like him whats the best way to fix this

help, i rate good answers!!

First off you have to be honest with him it may hurt his feeling alittle but act sad when telling him. tell him that you think he is a great guy and all but if maybe yall could just be friends and act sad so it doesnt make him feel guilty.
-Sam-

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Basically, here's the deal. Long and complicated, unfortunately -- and if it matters, I'm 18 and F.

* My two best friends, who I'll call A and B, have been fighting for years. After some stuff went on with B's mom, who A's always hated, B decided she had enough and broke off the friendship.

* I've told them both that, even if they stopped being friends, I was going to stay friends with both of them. A, however, will not have any of it. Every time we talk, she has to tell me that B will end up stabbing me in the back and isn't my real friend (not to mention she hates all of our mutual friends). B, for the record, doesn't understand why I'm still friends with A, but is okay with it.

* This has made my friendships with both of them pretty crappy. I've stopped hanging out with B so much just to shut A up, even though B and I are really close. This isn't enough for A, she wants me to hate B as much as she does, and it's about to drive me nuts.

* They can't make up, because A still wants to be friends with B (god knows why if she hates her so much) -- either that or she wants B to admit she's ruined A's life (which isn't true, IMHO). B doesn't want to be friends, and she doesn't want to apologize for everything A's accusing her of (some of it's true, most of it isn't).

* A takes all of this out on me and doesn't seem to care how I feel about it. This really pisses me off, and I've told her and tried to explain myself a zillion times, but it never seems to work.

So, I'm at my wit's end, and I have no idea what to do about any of this anymore. Anyone got an idea?

omg i had the ame problem with my friends till finally i just had to pick a side. of course i try to work it out but they didnt want me to hang out with each other so maybe if you try to get them to hang out like invite both over to your house but dont tell them that the other person is coming that way you can get them both to sort out the problem together.
-Sam-

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My school is doing Aresnic and Old Lace, and I am playing Elaine. We will be doing some "stage-kissing" and I don't know what they mean by that. Could someone explain this technique?

"stage kissing" is pretty much kissing but it does mean anything intiment some directers may make it look like kissing but it doesnt mean any personal attraction between people.
-Sam-

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okay u see i have this friend. She's great and all but when its not just the two of us (like in a big group) she ditches me alot and tries to act all "cool". Becuz of this she is turning into a big flirt and somewhat of a slut. She's very rude to me and alot of her other friends and i REALLY want to tell her that becuz she needs to hear it, but i dont want to start a fight. HELP!!

~friend or enemy?

Try to talk to this "friend" about the way you think she is acting and see if you can try to see if there might be a family problem or a friend problem that may be causeing her to act the way she does if she does want to talk about it, it may be a serious problem that she doesnt want to discuse. if so you can tell your school counciler if it gets serious enough and mabe she can help her.
-sam-

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Theres this guy that i like. All his friends thinks he likes me and i think he does too. But hes real shy about it and wont admit. Well last night his friend invited us all over and a couple of my girl friends came over. The guy i like lives right up the street and they called him to come over but he never showed. Then today he was supposed to come to a party but he never showed either but his friends went. Does this mean he doesnt want to see me or what?

ok i used to be really shy to so i no how its like. he probally is shy because he my like you alot and doesnt want to embaress himself. what you can do is if you see him in school go up to him by yourself cuz when your in a big group its kinda hard to talk to someone. then ask him if he would want to hang out some time then yall can get to know each other and he will feel more comfortable around you
-Sam-

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ok theres this boy Nick, and i really really love him and he broke up with me today, and now he likes my best friend who hates him...i really want him back. how do i get him back?

ok i had the same problem last year with a guy. try to see if he is still single that way it wont be really weird when you try to talk to him. if he is still single try to start hanging around with his friends like at the mall then you can start hanging out with him again.when yall's friendship starts to grow start to give him flirty actions like licking your lips or smiling at him when he looks at you in class. then start to hang out with just him and that way you guys become close again.
-Sam-

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Im 16 and never really have had a bf. I act really self concious but all i really want is a boyfriend. Yah know someone who will like me for me and care about me. I know i have family and friends but it's not the same. Iv gotten to the point where i think im so ugly that i dont even have crushes anymore i just think some guys are hott. Maybe another reason is because most of my school probably thinks im bi or a lesbian b/c im friends w/ people who are bi lesbian and gay. But im straight. It seems wrong to want a bf more then anything but all i want is someone to show effection towards. How come everyone esle gets one but i dont. Alotta the time i just think god put me on earth just to piss me off. I dont wish i was dead and im not really suicidal or anything. Im just tired of waiting everyday for something i dont think is ever gunna happen. What can i do to maybe put myself out there or b happier. Im not into being a girly girl so making myself over isnt my first choice.

Just try to be yourself and have fun with it.
Dont worry about what people say about you or what you think about yourself just live your life to its fullest. be happy for who u r and remember that there are people out there that love you just the way you are and those are the people you shoould care about the most
-Sam-

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I've been hooking up with this guy for about 3 monthes now. His birthday is in a few weeks (he'll be 17) and I have NO idea what to get him. We're not going out... just hooking up. His style is preppy and he's into sports too. Any ideas for gifts? I was thinking maybe a good cologne... any of you know anything that smells amazing? (I'm willing to spend up to around $35-$40)Thanks!!!

Personly i think Adidas for men smells amazing but if he is preppy enough hollister for men smells even better but its up to you what you think he likes.

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