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Member Since: March 19, 2013
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Last Update: March 19, 2013
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So me and my boyfriend have been dating since august and when we first got together I told him about something i had done. It involved me and someone not of our ethnicity. He is German and has a superiority thing going on. he will constantly bring up the fact that i done this and he tells me that is disgusts him, but then he says that its his own personal demons and that he will just get over it, that it isn't me, its him. The last thing i want my boyfriend to do is to think i am sick. besides it was before i even met him or even knew of him. He said it is what it is and that i cant change it and neither can he but it bothers him ALL OF THE TIME but he wants it to go away because he shouldnt feel like that...what should i do, he is the love of my life and just knowing he feels this way but loves me very much, it crushes me to no end. Help? (link)
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I feel that since you had this "thing" before you even met your boyfriend and he said that you could do nothing about it, then there's nothing you can do but talk to him. It's not your fault. He has to figure it out and get over it because if he loves you, he has to accept that fact and move on. What's past is past. Will he ever get over it? That depends on him and whether he's able to let it go. But I believe that time eventually heals everything.
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