Member Since: August 22, 2013
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I am 14/f. I am totally depressed on the matter of not getting friends In school. In my earlier school people used to think I am weird and some rude ones even said it on my face. They used to gossip about me but my mom soon changed my school and I was so happy for it. In my new school, I expected friends but here also people kind of at times ignore me and gossip about me. I can feel the hate about me in some people's faces and I really feel bad about it. I am the kind of person who likes having a lot of fun and friends but unfortunately I never get them. I have like only 3 friends outside but not in school. There is only one girl who actually talks to me but just to use me to do her work. I always try to talk and get in conversations but no one talks too me really. I feels so alone and hopeless. I really want friends but don't know how?? And this is the second time I am going thought this so I hate school but I have this question in mind: why don't I get friends in school??
I really want to talk to some one nice about this and get good advice. It would be nice if someone gave me!! (link)
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I used to be the same way as you except when I changed schools I suddenly had a lot of friends. I'm 15 right now and when I was 12 I was terribly bullied and I had like zero friends. If you ever need a friend to talk to I am here for you cuz honestly I wish that I could of had someone back then to make this time easier for me. I'm pretty experienced in this area and if you ever need any advice just ask
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Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl who will be a sophomore in HS in the fall. I honestly think that I wasn't meant to have friends. As long as I can remember, even back in kindergarten, I've been bullied. Growing up, I would get invited to birthday parties by the parents, but when I got there the kid would say they didn't want me there. :( I've had years where I would come home and cry for hours every day because I was so miserable. Fast forward to the present. Everyone at my high school is so shallow that it drives me insane. Don't tell me to join clubs to meet new people, because my school has 300 people and everyone is exactly the same. I had a lunch table of people that I sat with this year, but I have nothing in common with them. They barely said anything to me at all this entire year. People think that I'm a nerd. I get straight A's without even trying because I've basically given up on myself. Plus, everyone likes to pick on me because I'm younger (in my town for some reason, freshmen are sixteen years old, but I was thirteen). I really hate my life. I WANT to be able to go out and have fun with friends, go on dates (I've never had a boyfriend and probably will never have one), and do stuff, but I'm just so depressed. I don't even feel fulfilled doing the things I used to like doing. My entire life revolves around regurgitating A grades to keep my parents happy. I don't want to live like this... Last year I started cutting but it didn't make me feel better. Thanks for reading this far. Help.... (link)
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Hey I'm 15 and I'm gonna be a sophomore this year too. I have 3 best friends now but I used to be terribly bullied about being super smart and being a "good girl". Guys and girls in my class would call me names and make fun of my clothes and call me ugly. It was terrible. I went through a point that I just didn't want to live anymore and it sucked. I thought I'm just a waste of space. The kids also told me I was chubby and I developed an eating disorder that I still have to deal with today. It's weird cuz after I reached highschool I kinda became popular and guys were all over me but inside I still felt insecure. Things people say can really hurt but honestly it does get better. If you need a friend I am here if u want to talk anytime. Girls will be mean and they are probably just jealous that you are smart and are gonna be something when you grow up.
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