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Member Since: May 7, 2005
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Last Update: May 11, 2005
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I have officially met the love of my life.He treats me better than anyone ive ever known. he says he wants to take care of me for the rest of my life, and hes proven that in many ways. there are only two problems: 1. he has a girl living with him- they used to go out, but now theyre just sharing living quarters.hes moving soon, and shes not coming with.2.(the main issue, at hand)there is about 15 or 16 years between us, and i should probably mention that i am defintely not 18. its so hard to keep this a secret and lie to everyone around me, i hate it, but i love him so much. PLEASE give me an honest opinion on how you, personally would handle my situation. thanx for any advice you can give. (link)
Well, you don't tell your age, and I' not sure if you mean you are under or over 18...

Anyway, as for me, I think 15 or 16 years is a significant age difference between partners regardless of how old they are, but it may not affect a relationship when both are over 30 and have compatible qualities.

If this is your case, and if you are sure you love this man, then perhaps it's time for you to start to accept him for what he is, and to be willing to face any people's reactions towards your relationship with this man.






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