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I wear my belt buckle to the side&I own a pair of tweed shoes.
My exboyfriend and I are best friends because we don't hold grudges.
I have a lot of bad days. But I'll tell you that I'm terrific.
I usually don't like myself a lot.
I put other's before myself.
I'm a sweet person.
But I will hate you if you piss me off.
And it's pretty easy to do that.
I give good advice.
I have the friends you wish you had.
They're the best things that've ever happened to me.
I go to school because I want to make something out of myself.
I listen to the good music.
If I hear a song that I like, chances are I'll listen to it over&over.
I dress in the clothes that make me feel comfortable.
I sing, and I do it off key.
I write poetry, and I do it well.
I'm a vegetarian in the works.
I'm not very considerate of my heart.
I fall in like with boys way too easily.
I usually set myself up to get hurt.
I'm intelligent when I want to be.
I have a lot of family members.
And I will kill you if you mess with any of them.
I think I'm overweight.
I don't have a boyfriend.
I don't think I'm pretty a lot. Only sometimes.
I've had my heart broken for real only once.
I don't trust people easily, because it usually screws me over in the end.
I talk a lot. &I'm not shy.
My cousin died the day after his 18th birthday when I was seven.
I've never been to starbucks.
I rinse my mouth out with hydrogen peroxide.
I'm easy to talk to. You should try it some time.
advice
Last year, I started going to a private school. All my life before then, I attended a public school, but now it's about time to start thinking about high schools. My mom wants me to continue to a private high school, and my dad's a jackass who couldnt care less. Anyhow, I would like to go back to a public school, which is where my brother is going now, but I just can't decide. I have friends in both school districts and totally care about all of them equally...I just guess I'm confused on which would be better. Think you can help?
-Lost in translation.
Dear Lost in translation,
I've attended a Private Catholic school since I was in Kindergarden. I'm now a freshman in highschool, and I still attend a Private Catholic school. Uniforms and everything! So I can't exactly compare the two, but I do think I can help you on your highschool decision. Okay, I'm pretty sure I know who you are! Hah. And I would push you towards a Privte Catholic High School (Scecina) So that you could remain with me! But, we're going to pretend like I have no idea of who you are! I honestly think, and maybe this is just because this is the way I grew up, but I think a Private school will do you best. I don't know how the education is at Warren or anything, but I do know about Cathedral and Scecina. They both offer excellent educations, and they both have great electives, and extras, and as far as friends go, that's something that no one but you can help you with. You and only you can make that decision. And I know that Scecina practices Catholic religion, and that's another thing you have to consider. I really hope I helped, and Aly, do whatevery makes you happy. And you always have the option of transferring. Remember that! I mean..Look at me. Going from Cathedral to Scecina..Yeah..
-Nik!
hey im from maine and im goin to indianna next friday, what types of clothes should i bring, like weather wise and style wise? Thanks!
It's been cold lately, so I suggest some jeans, sweats, hoodies, long sleeve shirts, basically warm clothes, but this IS indiana, so you might wanna bring some tee-shirts too, cause you never know with us. HAH!
okay i have a problem.... i cut myself... and i dont know how to stop.. its just that i get all jittery and the room spins but as soon as i cut myself i feel normal again and i get a major high off of it.... i want to stop because i know that someone is going to find out and than my life wil be over... so i guess my question is how do i stop without my friends or family ever finding out???
IM me on Brownie69813 and we'll talk, or you can e*mail me. xonikkigurlxo@hotmail.com I'd really like to talk to you about this.
-Nik.
well, i know its strange, but sometimes i wonder if my parents were virgins before they got married. because they both married late in there lives )38 39ish) so i kind of wonder. is this strange to think? i mean im not going to go up to my mom one day and say hey mom how are ya doing? so btw were you a virgin before dad?
It's not strange to think. In my opinion at least. I mean..I think it too. So..NO. It's not.
lot of my freinds think I sould try out modeling I wonder anybody know anyway webistes..
Plus I am 4 foot 5. I hard you have to be 5 foot be a model.
Binca
Try http://exploretalent.com/add/in0000000237.html
or http://www.newfaces.com/talent/childtalent/teen-models.html
or http://www.newfaces.com/talent/childtalent/preteen-models.html if you're younger.
well, my dog(german shepherd) just had 5 puppies(sadly 1 died) anyways, three of them are totally black and only one of them looks like her mother(black and tan). i was wondering if anybody could come up with some cool and unique names for my puppies, i have some ideas already, but i want more. thanx alot!!
Piezon. Quarky. Kink. it'd help if I knew if they were Females or males. haha. Write me back with the sex of them please..and I'll come up with more names.
Hope I helped.
-Nik!
Ok i only want answers from someone who cuts/ used to cut. Why do you do it? I cut so often and I'm really depressed and it just makes me feel so good. But what specifically for you was it that made you want to cut? I think getting ideas from others would help me. Thank you.
I'd love to talk to you about this, but I'd really like to do it through AIM, or e-mail. So please IM me- Brownie69813 or e-mail me- xonikkigurlxo@hotmail.com thank you
-Nicole Marie
ok a bunch of guys have liked me but i get really nervous so i tend to be mean or bitchey but i have stopped but now thats how all the guys think of me. How can i show them that i am gf material and not like that?
Wow. You sound like my double! haha. What I had to do, was start hangging out with the guys a lot more, and just be really nice. There's really nothing else you can do. Just make sure you don't let your nervous/bitchey side show. haha.
Hope that helped!
-Nik!
aight here it goes -- there is this guy that i liked a loooong time ago. and he was just really rude and obnoxious to me. i talked to him on the fone and he said he liked me, but that was before i met him, and then one day i met him at school, and he told my friend he didn't like me because i was black. and now he finally realizes that color doesn't matter and he likes me now and i'm starting to like him again, but im wondering if i should resist and treat him like he treated me for payback, or should i just give in and go out with him?
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Now that he finally realizes that he was wrong, give him a chance. If things change, to where he thinks color matters again, DUMP HIM, and don't give him another chance, but still don't be rude to him. Just let him know color doesn't matter.
Hope I helped!
-Nik!
when me and my bf both lived in tx we would go to eachothers houses well his parents were really protective of him like we couldnt be under the covers even if we were just hanging out with friends or just out talking to his parents and when he would come to my house my parents could really care less we could be laying on the couch with the covers over us that just didnt care but now that we have both moved when i go visit him his parents and they dont care what we do but my parents are always coming in and telling us to leave the door open so they can walk by and check up on us what the deal? should i tell my parents to back off or just listen to them and do as they say.
Talk to your boyfriend first, see if he has a problem with it. Then talk to your parents, and tell them that you think you guys deserve some privacy, and why all of a sudden they changed their minds about you two? Ask them if they lost trust in you for some reason. But make sure not to be too snappy about it, because then they'd prolly get mad. And if they say to still keep the door open and stuff, just listen to them, and then show them that you two can be trusted.
Hope I helped!
-Nik!
I'm kind of talking to this guy friend of mine, but when we get on the phone with each other, we dont say much, and its the same thing in person. Does anyone have any good topics to talk about with each other?
Good topics to talk about with guys are SPORTS, FOOD, TV and MUSIC. The four main things guys love. There's also girls, but if you kinda like him..I'd stay away from that! haha. Just talk about what sports he likes, and what music he listens to. Simplpe things like that. Remember..he is a guy, so keep it simple so he can keep up. hahaha!
Hope that helped!
-Nik!
I've been suffering from clinical depression for a few years, and recently started having panic attacks and mild hallucinations. The hallucinations are morbid (pools of blood, reaching hands, ect.) but clearly recognizable as they're so out of place. I don't want to see a psychologist or take medication. Is there a way to make your mind stay away from depressing thoughts or just clear it if things start getting hazy/weird?
To make your mind clear, try thinking of other things obviously. Happy things. Try ya know..flowers, and stuff like that. I'm on depression medication also. I tried clearing my mind too, but it didn't work too well. Your best bet is to just take the medication.
hope I helped. Need to talk more about depression and stuff..IM me.. Brownie69813
-Nik!
okay so there is this guy that i like and i don't know himt hat well yet but i would like to get to know him how should i approach him or introduce myself to him? without feeling stupid?
This one's easy! haha. Just go up to him, and be like 'hey. I'm ___. What's goin on?' and if he doesn't respond, or is a total duche, then forget about him, he isn't worth your time.
hope that helped!
-Nik!
Ok, at school they want us to start thinking about what highschool we are going to go to, and a few people came in and talked about their school. I really liked this one school, and i told the rents about it and they forbid me to go there 1. to far away and the bus will be an extra 1,000 dollars and we dont hav alot of money 2. they just dont like the school!
Well my sister goes to this one school, and i went to school with her this one day its called shaddowing, and i absolutely hate it there and would be misserable if i went there, well thats the only school my parents will let me go to! But wait, thats not all of it... my cousin who is my age wants me to go to the highschool by him and i could move in with them, and leave my whole life behind, and i wouldnt want to do that, and it would make my cousin mad if i dont go there, and my parents said they would never talk to me again if i do. I am so congfused and lost. All my friends know what highschool they are going to go to, and all their parents dont care where they go! I dont know what to do, and i always cry now when ever someone mentions the word crying... help PLEASE!!!
Amber advice column name is shanberca
thank you plz answer this i really need help!
Hi. I'm in highschool now. I'm a freshman. I really had a tough time choosing my highschool too. My mom said I could go where ever I wanted to. But my dad said I had to go to Scecina, or he wouldn't help pay my tuition. (parents are divorced) But my mom said where ever I'll be happy at, I should go, and we'd find some way to pay for it. So I chose Cathedral. But now I want to transfer to Scecina, because I don't like Cathedral like I thought I would, but that's beside the point. I don't think your parents are being very fair on this point. They won't ever talk to you again? I mean..that's a little harsh. That's not right to do as a parent. And as for your cousin..forget him..this is your life. And this is where you're going to be going to school for the next FOUR years of your life, and I think you should be able to enjoy them! You really need to sit down, and talk with your parents, and if worst comes to worst. Move in with your cousin. Your parents will finally realize they can't just not talk to you forever, and everyone will come to their senses.
I hope this helped, and if not..I'm terribly sorry for waisting your time.
-Nik!
What do you do when you like your best friend's boyfriend, and you think he likes you too?
Signed..
-Helplessly In Love With The Wrong One..
Dear Helplessly in love with the wrong one..
-It doesn't matter if he likes you or not. This is your best girl's guy. I've tried that before..TWICE. It doesn't end up the way you think it will. Honestly..from experience. Your best bet is to try as hard as you can to forget about it. Even if he likes you. I mean which would you like..to go out with this cute kid for like..2 weeks. and not have a best friend, or miss out on a guy that you most likely arent gonna marry, and have a best friend for probably the rest of your life?
-Think about it!