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Age: 35
Member Since: February 20, 2006
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Okay well this dosent really go under Fitness, But i didnt know where else to put it.. here goes..
I have a "mole / birthmark" on my nose, its like where a piercing would be, and im really self consious about it. It's really noticaable but not really big but its normal sized. When People Say things about i i just laugh it off but i HATE it there. Is there anything That Can Hide it, and am i unlucky for having it? Pleae help me out. thanks so much (link)
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First off you are NOT I say NOT unlucky. We all have things we don't like and don't want. In your case the position is just more annoying to you. I suggest talking to your doctor and if necessary a dermatologist about it. that is the best starting place. Aside from that don't be ashamed or anything by it. If anything you have a ready made idiot and "not a real" friend detector, because if its a problem for them, then they are bound to be a problem for you, so don't waste your time with them.
Good Luck and let me know how it turns out.
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ok my youngest is 11 and he still sleeps with me. i have tried everything to get him in his own bed, but he just continues to sleep with me...any advice on how to get him sleeping alone in his own bed? (link)
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It seems to me that he has just become comfortable that way, unless there are some details you're leaving out. If not, then perhaps you should just Give him your pillows and lay down the law. this will give him the understanding that its time to sleep in his own room, but provide some comfort in what he is used to. It may be difficult but it is necessary. Now if there are some little details that should be provided please do so, otherwise you're just not getting the best advice. I would also sit and talk with him or have his father or a male role model ask him about it to see if there is something that he doesn't want to share with you. Some children at that age are still scared of monsters in the closet or just having bad dreams alot. It could be a variety of things. It might even require therapy. Or it could just be a comfort issue. Hell I wish i my mom was around sometimes to pet my hair and put me to sleep. Lots of guys do. But alas....growing up prevents such things and requires more indendence. Whatever the problem I suggest you start taking action now before it causes real trauma.
Good luck and let me know how it goes.
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I'm 18, and my child is due on March 3rd. I'm really excited about this, but the problem is with the father.
Don't get me wrong--I really love him, but I'm scared we leaped into everything too soon.
We were dating for 3 months when I found out I was pregnant. I was scared to tell him, but he was so supportive, and he ended up absolutely ecstatic about it once we'd both been reassured about some things. We're engaged now, and things are going great.
But, that's the problem.
I think things are too good, and that once the baby is born that things might fall apart. I really want to talk to him about this, but I don't know how to approach it.
Any help is more than appreciated.
Thanks for your time. (link)
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It is really alot easier than you think.
See all expentant parents go thru this regardless of age; however, at your age the issues are normally certained around the relationship. You have to remember that you have 2 different things going on. The relationship and the parenthood. Never mix the 2. That is the mistake that people often make. Whether it be fighting or not fighting the 2 should never be mixed. Both men and women can make losy partners but excellent parents and vice versa. It may sound weird but very very true. Many people often forget this and think if a person is a losy partner than they are no good for parenthood.
Now having said this remember that being a parent to be means that you just have to do things that might be uncomfortable this includes talking.
I suggest some TV or a Movie, some food and privacy. Then just sit down and talk. Let him now that you just want to share what you're thinking. THAT IS ALL. Don't present it with some expectations, this way whatever he says he can say with the freedom to know that he doesn't even have to respond. This will help you get a better sense of his thoughts instead of some stressed out pressured answer that he thinks he has to come up with quickly. Make Sense?
You might even consider setting your wedding date for when the baby is a year old. This way you will both know that the other agreed to the marriage with an open hert and mind. not a sense of duty or obligation.
I hope this helps. Let me know how it goes.
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