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Our coworker invited me and my friend to go to a birthday party for another coworker. But one of my friends didn’t have a good relationship with the birthday girl in the first place. Eventually we picked up the coworker that invited us and we went. Once we got there, the birthday girls mother mistaken my friends name for another girl, and she felt distant. As well as the coworker that invited us was very distant with the both of us, and acted like he didn’t know us, as well as the other coworkers that were there, we felt ignored. By the end of the day, everyone was quite rude and eventually as we were leaving, I overheard them say, “who invited them?” And I felt quite hurt. Right after we left, we felt broken as if we did something wrong. I need advice on how I could ever mak myself feel better after what happened. Thanks (link)
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I know how you feel! I have let other people's behavior affect my feelings and I tended to take things personally.
The probably isn't you, the problem is with the coworker and the other people at the party. They were being rude and inhospitable. You didn't do anything wrong.
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There is a cute guy from my school that I have been texting a lot recently. He asked me if we could go out sometime and catch a movie. The only problem is, I’m not sure if my mom would let me. Me and my mom have never talked about if I am allowed to date or not, so I am scared to ask. What is a good way to figure out what she thinks about it without scaring her into saying no? And even though I don’t know him that well, if all else works out, should I go out with him?
I am about to turn fifteen and I’m in freshman year of high school. I am a girl.
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I think it is time for you to have a nice, open conversation with your Mom about dating. You are getting to the age where you should begin dating. My daughter is 20 and when she began dating, I would bring her to the date place, such as the movie theater and be there to pick her up after. Suggest that to your Mom and see what she thinks. As my daughter got older, I gave her more and more "unsupervised" dating time, but always checked in to see who she was with, where she was going etc..
Don't be afraid to talk to your Mom, she is going to probably be your biggest source for advice as you get older. Cultivating an open and honest relationship with her is key! Good luck!
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okay, before i start i want to ask everyone reading to take me seriously because this is something that actually drives me to the brink of madness every single ******* day. it might sound weird but rather than judging me, just give me your best advice because lord knows i need it. i am a 17 year old girl. back in december 2018, (i was still 17) my friends and i decided to go to this small restaurant we had never been to before. he (let's call him john) works there as a manager. that's when i first saw him, and right away we striked up conversation. he asked me for my name and i told him, and he has remembered it every time since. i immediately was attracted to him when i first saw him, but after that night i really wanted to see him again. i started going to that restaurant a lot with my friends, and they all knew it was because i wanted to see him and they teased me for it and joked around about me being into older guys. i found out he is 38, and it didn't even bother me because i actually assumed he was older. now it is june 2019 and i don't know what to do because im super into him and i know it would never work. im not gonna lie, when i go into the restaurant i try to make sure i look good because i know his schedule and when he's gonna be there (he told me this i didn't even ask). i can't tell if he finds me attractive but he always uses my name when he talks to me and every time i come in we talk and have conversations and i just seriously really love being around him. if i'm being honest, i definitely flirt with him when i go to the restaurant and i think i've made it obvious that i like him. i KNOW he's 38 but idk i can't help what i feel it's strange but i even ******* dream about him and i feel like it's consuming my life. i really wish he was younger or i was older so i could have a higher chance of getting to know him and everything. i turn 18 in three months so obviously i would not do anything before then. but when i do turn 18, a huge part of me really wants to pursue this and at least maybe hook up with him. i am not sure if he would want to but i wanna try, should i not??? i don't see the harm in that anyway. i know he is single bc i stalked his facebook (lol i know im insane) and he has no kids and has never been married. he's really independent and that's what i'm attracted to. i'm just so into him help it's bad and please don't tell me im going to get him sent to prison bc im not planning on doing anything until its legal (link)
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It sounds like you have a big crush! Crushes are normal at your age. The one thing you should realize, however is that when he is at work in a restaurant, part of his profession is to get people to come back. He probably is good at remembering names and making conversation with customers. How would you feel about telling him about your crush? Would you be afraid of feeling embarrassed if it wasn't returned? You run a big risk of it not being returned considering his age.
My advice would be, don't go to the restaurant for a while. Let yourself cool off a bit. Then when you do go back, see how he acts. Does he treat you any differently?
Personally, I would advise against pursuing him, because you might end up being hurt very badly.
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I am a girl in high school
I’ve been talking to a guy from my school for a while now. He has been really open and honest with me. He wants to go on a date with me. It’s been moving really fast. But he had a girlfriend a month ago. I don’t want to be a rebound if he’s just looking to have someone. So is he just being desperate wanting a date or is this real? (link)
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Sometimes it is just fun to go on a date without becoming involved. Dating doesn't have to involve intimacy. You can just go out and have fun and get to know each other. Go on a date, relax and just have fun!
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how do you get a hickey to stay dark. im practicing on my arm and i can make them but they fade. what can i do to make them stay dark.
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I guess to answer your question, you need to know how a hickey is made. The suction on your arm is causing small blood vessels to break, causing bruising under the skin. Your body will naturally start healing itself, just like with any bruise.
I really don't know why you want hickeys, but you can't do anything to keep them dark, you just have to make new ones.
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