Hi. Im Miss Ask-It-All
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im actually a 100 year old wise woman's soul inside a 13 year old's body.
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Dear Miss Ask-It-All,
Anyways, I can help out teenagers.
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12 year old female. I used to be suicidal majorly, for 2 years I was suicidal. Even had panic attacks. Eventually I started cutting. I cut on my arms, legs and stomach. It got to the point where for a year and a half every night when I took a shower I'd cut myself. It's been 4 months since I've done that and my life got much better. I now have a lot of friends, hobbys and everything is much better now in every area. The only thing is now when I shave I can't without trembling. The problem is hair is everywhere I used to cut using that razor. Now I need to shave with that razor, and every time I do that it reminds me of cutting and it freaks me out and I can't. How do I get over this? (link)
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Dear Unique Teen,
I was really shocked to read at the starting about your condition. I am truly sorry to know that you were under so much stress that you were suicidal and you had started cutting.
And as I continued reading on, I was filled with soo much happiness that you had left self harming. You should be an example and role model for all other self harmers that there is always some purpose for you to live.
Hmm, and as for your shaving problem, there are many solutions to that problem. Using razors is actually not a good option for any girl because if you use razors or blades for shaving your body hairs, your hairs come out rough or thick and the area of your skin becomes rough throughout time. I would have recommended you to wax, just like me, because after a few time of waxing your hairs will be thin and the skin will be softer. But it would be crazy to wax over the cuts.
You can also try some hair removal creams but you should consult your doctor before using them and ask your doctor about this same question so he/she could recommend you the right product which would not burn in your cuts or give you a rash.
And above all, I am proud of you that you stopped all of that. And dont worry and dont freak out while shaving. Just take calm breaths. And tell yourself that you are happy now. Why ruin your happy life now. Live and Love Life.
Anyways, im really proud of you.
PS im just a 13 yr old girl ;D
Yours Truly
Miss Ask-It-All
PS--- Im REALLY proud of you =D
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my best friend hangs out with my other friend like every weekend or everyday and i never realy hang out with her as much anymore and i miss it just being us but then my other friend came along and just starts being her new best friend what do i do :( (link)
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Dear sad friend,
It sure is really sad to hear about what has happened to you! Nobody would ever like their best friend to hang out with somebody else, including me!
Ok, so is the other friend good with you? How is her behavior? Is she only nice with you if she is with YOUR best friend?
By the way, Im not sugar coat things and im gonna give you straight advice!
She is YOUR best friend! And there is nothing wrong with it that you should talk to her! You should not stay quiet with this and if you do, say good-bye to your old pal!
Now all you have to do is talk out things with your bestie. If your bestie gets angry with you or leaves you, dont feel sad cuz you were her friend but she betrayed you, you did not betrayed her.
Anyways, I hope things work out perfectly!
Good Luck!
(PS: You're really gonna need it!)
Your's Truely,
Miss Ask-It-All
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OMG! I really longed to have a pet cat but my mom is allergic. The only pets i like are cats! But my mom wont let me keep them because she is allergic to them! But I really want one! Please help!
Sincerely,
Confused Cat Lover (link)
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Dear Confused Cat Lover,
Ah, the same problem as me, but dont worry.
I also just loveloveloveloveloveloveloveeeee
cats and my mom is allergic too and even my mom had tons of cats when she was of my age =D what a coincidence XD anyways, you should sit or lay down anywhere, be calm and think and talk to your wise self.
Your mom can not live with cats as long as she have allergies, right.
Do you care for your mom. Do you want your mom to be healthy and happy. Well, you can trying helping out at an animal shelter or you can also get more info about your mom's allergies. There are also some hypo-allergic cats. HYPO-ALLERGIC means they are allergic but not as much as with alot of allergies. But I still recommend you not to keep cats for now.
If you really want a little pet who is cuddly and cute, you can try keeping a hamster.
I would too but the thing is that I cant find hamsters in my local pet shops XD
Anyways, here are some more options for you
Volunteer at a local animal shelter
Give food and shelter for a stray cat on street and earn the cat's trust
Get a hamster
Play an online animal game called AnimalJam
Play Talking Angela
Play My Talking Angela
And above all
BE PATIENT
Hope I helped you out =D
Your's truely,
Miss Ask-It-All
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