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I am Sofetios. My column will be for general advice that has to do with things that are generally viewed as philosophical, spiritual (though not in a religious sense), logical, and other aspects that generally are not physical based.
The advice I give will be based on my own unbiased and honest viewpoints. These are just my opinion. I would recommend only taking them in if they resonate with you. In other words, take what you think would truthfully work for you, even if it is just parts of it.
I will do my best to answer questions I get. I do not have all the answers, though I may have a suitable one for your question.
Thank you and please have a good day!
Age: 22
Member Since: March 9, 2016
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Last Update: March 9, 2016
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Hello. So by my calculations and estimations, I have a 65% chance of dying within the next 8 months. Not by cancer or any type of disease, however that's possible as well. The situation is hard to explain, but it's inevitable. I've fully accepted it as well. Now. I want some reasonable things to do before I die. Keep in mind, I'm only 13. This isn't your typical hipster bucket list full of things like "go bungee jumping" and "be friends with a celebrity" because I don't have much time first of all, and second, bungee jumping is f*ckin terrifying (I had to put the * in because I don't know their policy). Anyway, I want fun reasonable things to enjoy in this world. And don't waste your time typing nonsense about the inevitability of my death. I fully understand and accept it. Answer my question, and nothing more. Thank you. (link)
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This is my opinion, please only take from it what resonates with you and what you think will honestly help.
My opinion would be to mainly do what you enjoy and also try out some things that you may have wanted to for a while. Even though there are major things such as becoming rich, going to a major amusement park, meeting a celebrity, etc. that you can do in life, most of the time it is that smaller things and often the free ones that give the most pleasure and joy. It is very possible to enjoy any small thing in life, usually by finding and enjoying what joy there is about it and what it brings you.
Even perhaps learning a new skill that you would enjoy or perhaps a short venture like writing a novel could be an interest. In my belief, anything is possible as long as you have the mindset of belief in it. In other words in regards to learning new skills, ventures, and generally everything, thought creates reality.
In short, do what you love, what you think you would love, and I hope this helps.
~Sofetios
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How can you show him you love him besides kissing and no sex ? What other way ? (link)
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This is my opinion, please only take from it what resonates with you and what you think will honestly help.
In my opinion, showing someone you love them has a lot to do with the internal aspect a lot more than the external. I don’t know what you do and don’t do already to show love for him and the other way around other than what you have already stated. So I will do my best to give advice based off of that. Generally speaking in my own opinion, feeling love for someone on the inside generally will show itself on the outside when you are near or interacting with this person whether you intentionally show it or not. That in itself should show him that you love him. When you combine this with showing love through physical ways such as kissing, hugging, even a hand on the shoulder, should likely show it more so.
I would keep in mind that this is a two way street. You can show love for someone, as to whether they accept it is up to the other. I should mention that I feel that when both individuals freely share and accept love from and to one another, that in my experience problems seem to melt away. Trust, openness, and honesty are also key points in this. If you feel that you would like to find more ways to love him, I would recommend just making time to talk to each other about what each other could do to help this in the most open and honest way you both can if you haven’t already. Regardless, just have faith, hope, trust, and keep loving him and things should turn out well.
Thank you for reading this.
~Sofetios
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