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Hey! I am Farah from Egypt I love guy with me at school who really is nice and a good friend for all girls , I love him so much but he's treating me normal or less than normal i feel that i don't matter with him but sometimes he talks to me and says you are nearest because you are the only one who didn't hurt me but he doesn't talk much with me and sometimes i feel he ignores me and i also feel that he loves my best friend but she doesn't care for him at all , he love to tease me all the time and he knows that he is making me sad by that i don't want to go in relationship with him not to lose a great friend like him , i love him so much and did many things for him and he knows i feel i can't go away from him . (link)
When he's not by anyone pull him out side the school/any place private and start kissing him. Have sex after he'll love u


everytime I see a person that attracts ma attention I have a tendesiy of wanting to fuck no matter where we at and I dont even be knowing them not even a lil but I know how to think and know that somethings are wrong but I just have to have sex then im scared to tell ma family that I already lost my virginity (link)
I HAD the same problem. This might cure it. Go somewhere private where there's no one and get a hot friendto come over. Tell them your problem and start kissing them. Go to a bed. When you go to start. TIE THEM DOWN AND START. KEEP DOING IT ALL NIGHT/DAY. Tell your parents your at a friends house.BUT YOU'LL BE HAVING SEX...... DO IT AS LONG AS U WANT. KEEP DOING IT EVERY NIGHT AND DO IT HARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!


18/f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years. We have been doing "foreplay" for the majority of this time but have only started having sex for the past 5 months or so.

Put simple, no matter what I do I can't seem to finish for him. It gets to a point where things feel SO good, up to a point where I physically stop him (i.e. grab his hand or push him off). It seems so intense and so good that I cant take anymore and I just can't help it. So that's the basic problem in a nutshell, however there is more to it but you don't have to read it all if you have any ideas on what could help me.

Anyways, some background things that may hinder answers are:
1.) I dont traditionally masterbate. I do to some degree, but not the way it is normally done. For some reason, i don't feel anything at all when I try to mimic and do what he does to me to myself.
2.) I was sorta sexually abused as a child (hard to get into) and I tend to have alot of "rape dreams". Sometimes I worry this may be blocking things somehow...
3.) Lately, I have been incredibly sensitive. We are eachothers only sexual partners and we always use a condom and the birth control pill, but for some reason even foreplay tends to hurt. It really discourages him caus I always say its sore, especialy since beforehand I always tended to like things kinda rough.

Any ideas? At this point his confidence is almost shot and I know its starting to be a problem. He doesn't even want to do anything sexual because he thinks he's just horrible at it (which I know is not the case). Any ideas why this is happening and what I can do to stop it?
Thanks. (link)
Try to finger yourself or ask him if you can try something new. Have him start a little deep and go in deeper without coming out. If you try to push him away, tell him to stick you on the bed (tape, handcoufs, etc) You need to get over it. Have him go, have his dick still out. When you trying to get him off tell him not to worry. Then if you still want him off, get him to get a un-sharpened pencil or un-used something like a pencil and tell him to stick it up your vagina. Then do his dick again. This time put it ALL in. It may hurt. If your trying to scream at him have him duck tape you mouth shout. You HAVE to 100% stop and go all the way. Then put something LONGER but as wide as his dick in and tell him to push it in nice and good. HARD!!!!!!!


i'll try to make this fast: i'm 21 yrs old, 5'7", and around 170. i've been trying to lose about 30-40 lbs by fall/winter time. anyways, i just wanted to make sure my daily exercise regimen was a good one and i wanted everyone's opinions so i'm not wasting my time. everyday (except sundays) i do: 20-30 mins of running outside, 30 mins of the elliptical OR 1 hour of cycling class (depending on the day), a few reps of weights. would that help me lose weight? thanks in advance (link)
Eat healthy food (Bananas, apples, grapes, etc.) and drink lots of water. Try going to you local gym or swimming. I lost 50 pounds by swimming just for 2 hours for only 2 months:D


18/f

Last night I felt really sad. I'm not sure what it was... I wasn't sure if it's the fact that I knew I was going to miss my boyfriend when he goes off to vacation, and I'm just hoping nothing will happen. Or if it's stress from me trying to make it work. If I was tired. Sad that I'm not exactly "satisfied" from this relationship due to how he treats me... Or because of school? Yesterday night I was with him, and things went pretty well. And I left feeling sad. I was worried about him because he was stressed out about many things and he didn't wanna talk about it. Maybe I was just feeling sad because he's stressed out, he didn't seem as affectionate as he was before? I'm not sure.

But it's the feeling where I really miss someone, or feeling really sad on the inside and you think that if you cry it'd relieve it. Which I did, and it made me feel a bit better but not as much. What do you think it could possibly be?? (link)
I could possably be that yoou've grown fond of him and don't want him to go on vacation. Next time you see him try doing something romantic, maybe it'll make you feel better :)
Hope I help


What does it mean when my boyfriend pulls me towards him & places me on his lap? I don't mind this but I'm just curious though why he does it.
female 17 (link)
He's trying to show you he loves you very much :) He's trying to comfort you.

Be careful though because my boyfriend did that and I got carried away...... I ended up pregnant.....


I think i might be pregnant, im only 14 & im scared, but i dont know how to tell my family? (link)
First, I'd make sure you ARE pregnant. Second, if you are, I'd tell your mom first and explain how it happened. Third, I was scared when I was pregnant too (I was only 12!) But it turned out to be fine. But since your under aged, as for if you ARE pregnant, the person you slept with is more then likely to go to jail for sexual abuse and/or rape. Therefore even if you were willing, you were still under aged. Minimum years is 5.


This coming school year will be my senior year. My boyfriend graduated this past school year. We live in two different states and have just recently been allowed to visit each other. Last school year we agreed that due to the fact that I couldn't go to my junior prom with him that I wouldn't go and since it was his senior year he could decide whether or not he wanted to go. He decided that he wasn't going to go and promised that we would go to MY senior prom together. Now, with senior year approaching he has said flat out that he doesn't want to go to my senior prom, because he "wasn't allowed" to go to his. I really want to go but I have no idea how to convince him? (link)
Tell him it was his choice not to go and tell him that if he don't want to go with you then you'll find someone who will, someone whom will love you and be honest.




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