Member Since: October 1, 2019
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Hi,
I recently asked my supervisor for a raise and it been a couple of weeks but he said he follow up with me next week. Anyways, I notice management is acting differently. One of my colleagues who is in a higher position I notice she doesn’t speak to me almost like avoiding me. I just notice this with the higher ups so I’m consider... is this a sign I didn’t get a raise? (link)
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Hi there,
I think you're feeling a little overwhelmed. My advice would be to wait for the management to confirm on your promotion before assuming anything. And your colleague acting differently can happen due to multiple reasons. She/he might be going through something else in life. And everybody has their own goals and ambitions. So you did nothing wrong by asking for a promotion not should you be scared about asking. Just wait a while and ping your manager again for an update on it. Don't let the colleagues behaviour get to you.
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First of all, I got to know someone online on discord and now we are friends on FB but he is not my style and I don't know how to tell him without making him feel like it's his fault... He look like he is a good person but I cannot feel attracted to him . What can I do ?
Gender: female , 20 , Greece (link)
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Sweetheart,
Just put it out front saying you're not interested in him. There's nothing wrong or rude about it. If you try to be extra nice and don't make it completely clear, there's a probability that he might take it as a false hope which would hurt him even more. If you're okay being friends with him, mention it, though not a grand idea. And it's not his fault nor your's that you are not attracted to him.
LoveAnne
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