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ABOUT ME
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My name is Kisha.
I am a sophmore.
My birthday is on June 22.
My fav color is blue.
I am very ticklish.
Being spontaneous gets me through life.
I always chew gum.
I am a text message whxre!
Playing in the snow && kissing in the rain gives me goosebumps.
Family is super important to me.
Music makes me happy.
Wishing/looking at stars is heaven to me.
I am a sucker for shy && romantic guys.
I like pretty much any sport out there.
If I`m not singing, I`m dancing!
A lot of people at school hate me because I am a bxtch.
Taking pictures is so fun.
Goofing off makes me feel warm inside.
I am told I am fun to be around.
I am told I give great advice.
I have been voted Dumbest Blonde 3 years in a row.

Website: My myspace ♥
Gender: Female
Location: Medford, OR
Occupation: I work at a coffee shop called Human Bean.
Age: 15
ICQ: 311-787-705
AIM: CooLestLooZerx
Yahoo: xx_wetdreams
MSN: KiiSHAL00P3R--x@hotmail.com
Member Since: December 21, 2005
Answers: 4
Last Update: February 7, 2006
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My ex's gf broke up with him again for like the 5th time. Each time it gets worse. She broke up with him like 3 weeks ago and he gave all her pictures and stuff back. (he wouldnt give me any of my things back. he told me i gave them to him so theyre his) Well 2 nights ago i asked him to come to a friends house and he said that he was chillen at one of his friends houses. An hour later he calls me up and tells me he was bored and wanted to come by me. So he came and we sat and talked for 2 hours. (we havent been together now for over a year)!(The same thing happened in november when she broke up and we hung out for a couple hours~his request) Both times hes told me he still loves me.(hes been with this "slut"(not even exaggerating) for over a year now) i feel its the sex that keeps him crawling back to her. she keeps calling him, and seeing another guy. I see her at school all the time kissing and holding hands and acting like theyre going out. Even though my ex and her arent going out, she still calls him and goes over to his house.
anyways, we talked about just starting out as friends and getting to know one another again. we talked about maybe hanging out tonight. well last night i asked him if we were still on, and he said "i told you not to get youre hopes up, something will probably come up". Ya his dick. his ex's car was at his house tonight and guess what they were probably doing?? Why cant he just be honest and stop with all the lame excuses? im sure he knew last night that she was gonna come over. Doesnt he think im not gonna find out? I live 3 mins away from him!! Hes told people that hes tired of getting hurt by her. She keeps dumping him and he keeps getting rejected when he asks her back out, and it makes him wanna kill himself, and he says thats unhealthy. Then why the hell does he jump everytme she calls? is it the sex? he says they are so alike that they butt heads all the time!! They are always fighting. So if she makes him feel horrible, why does he take her calls and let her in when she comes over? How can he say that he still loves me? I dont sleep around, maybe thats why! He told me he got checked for STDS, and had her checked too. Thats so pathetic!! Why would a guy even want a girl that gives it up so easily and to any1? (she told me to my face that she would let any guy f**k her) My ex always talked negative about "sluts" and he did her the 2nd night they hung out! Hes told me he did everything out of hurt.(we ended because he asked me out and told me that he "had" to take another girl to homecoming) I said "NO" to him becuz i wasnt gonna let my boyfriend take another girl to her homecoming.(he said i was being selfish) because i rejected him>he went off and started a relationship with someone else, but didnt like her.(he was using her to make me jealous) well that only made me more hurt and angry. They didnt do anything, but she really thought he liked her. I think he thought i was gonna come crawling and begging him to take me back, but i didnt!
How can some1 say they still love you when they do all this shit? See i have alot of self esteem, and alot of confidence where i dont need to sleep with a guy for whatever reason. She on the other hand cant be too bright if she puts out to any guy out there. My ex told me that it hurts her to have sex and she bleeds every single time. How can she even enjoy sex then?
Any input is greatly appreciated!! (link)
I went through the same exact thing.

Then, I realized...if you keep letting them do this to you, they are going to take advantage of you.

If he asys jump, he expects you to jump.

So next time they have a "fight", and he invites you to hang out with him, tell him no.

That ought to surprise him a little.

Make him feel what it is like to be the loser for once.

Keep me updated!



I love singing, I've been singing on stage since I was 3. People say I'm good so I guess I am. But I also love drumming. I started that when I was 5. Next year I'll be in High School and the way the system works, I can't do choir and band. I really love both alot. Which do you think I should go for. (link)
Go with whatever one you believe is the best.

I am a singer myself.

I have been since I was 7.

And I had to pick over Choir or Theatre.

I want to become an actress/singer.

So I went with choir.

There is always another year for another thing.

So go with what you want to pursue in the most.

Hope I helped.



Ok well valentines day is coming up and i hate it. Cause it's always the time you find out nobody likes me and well i'm not ugly like i can show u a pic but i feel soo freakin ugly and unwanted when i don't get asked out or even asked to dance. So my friend told me to ask them. Do guys like it when girls ask them to dance? Or do they thinks is weird and depret? (sorry if i spelled that wrong lol) (link)
Depends on the guy.

If the guy is sweet and sensitive, then he will think that it is very mature and sweet of the girl to ask.

If he is a jerk and inconsiderate, then he will most likely blow you off and think you are being dumb.

But most guys are shy. Sure they won`t admit to it but do guys admit that they cry? No...and we know they do.

I asked my best friend to my schools blacklight dance and he said yes.

I won`t lie to you, it is very hard and nerve-wrecking.

But once you get it over with, it is very relieving.

Keep me updated babe!

Good luck!



im having trouble coming up with something to get my boyfriend for valentines day.. i was thinking about making him a cd, with romantic-ish songs that show how much i love him.. like id do anything by simple plan, only one by yellowcard, everytime we touch by cascada.. stuff like that. i asked one of my guy friends and he said i should get him chocolate. what do you think? (link)
Ask around.

See what his family says.

Ask his other friends what he would most likely want from a girl.

I am sure it`s bound to work.

Keep me updated!





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