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Q: [16,f] So, in about 10 days I'm going to the gyno. I've never been and I really don't want to go. I know that part of the procedure is sticking metal instruments inside "there." Now, I'm not a virgin. I've only had sex a couple of times. My friend says that to judge what size instrument you need they ask if you're a virgin or not, and if not, they use larger instruments. I really don't want it to be any larger than it has to be. AT ALL. So my question is this, should I lie, and say I am? Or tell the truth? Or maybe just say I prefer a smaller one? Also, I know they question you about whether or not you are sexually active. Will they ask my mom to leave the room or what? Someone just please tell me what happens when you go and answer my questions.

Every thing is confidetial sweet heart your mom doesnt need to know nething and the instrument they use they use the same size for every one ... they will ask if you are sexually active tell the truth because thats the better thing to do ... i was just as scared as you are when I went ... just relax its really not that bad

Q: Hi, I am only 14 years old and I have been dating my boy friend for about 11 months. I know I love him and he loves me. We hang out all the time, so as you can imagine, sometimes it gets a little boring and I want to do sexual stuff really bad, but I fear I am too young. How much would be appropriate for some on my age? Please, don't give me the "What ever you feel like is right" because if I knew what was right, I wouldn't be asking. Thanks so much!

hey girly I am kinda in your position I am a little older then you but not bye much I am in the position my cusin and i made a promise we both wouldnt lose are virginity till we got married and I really am in the position that I love my boyfrined probally as much as you do I think if you feel ready to do something sexual you should make the first move me and my boy friend did the first thing acually intimate the other day I was so happy you and your boyfriend have been going out alot longer then me and my boyfriend me and mine have only been going out for 3 months as of yesterday so ...you and him I think are old enough to do what you want intimate

Q: I would like to correct my red nose, I had a plastic surgury done and after that I got a lot vains all over my nose and it is always red. I have to put make up all the time to hide my red nose. Please tell who should I go to and how much more or less it would cost me to correct this problem that makes me so sensitive

I think you should get your doctor to reccomend you to some one or you should look into lazer treatment I really dont know much about plactic sergery in the nose department if you know what you can look at it from a different point of view and think of it as you have more charecter tehn every one around you joke about it dont hide it you'll make it odvious to the people you are around

Q: Ok, well lately, many of my friends have been smoking weed. I tell them that it's stupid and that it can harm your health, and stuff such as that, but they keep telling me that weed doesn't harm your body in any way what-so-ever. If anyone knows, can you please tell me what side-effects you may get from smoking weed? (I'm a 14/f, if that's important, which I don't think it is.)

Ok, obviously your friends are not really imformed of how bad weed is. they can get lung cancer, and brain damage, and get really sick! try to stop them while they're still living!