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My boyfriend and I currently share a room with another couple. I want to create a peaceful, comfortable, happy living environment for us. Any docorating / styling ideas would be very helpful & taken to heart. Please & thank you! (link)
I'm redecorating my bedroom too. I have been searching in google images. Type 'peaceful bedroom' and search. There are lot of pretty one bedroom pictures you like or give you some ideas. Good luck.


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So I'm starting back up with my work out routines and I wanted to start using protein powder. I'm a vegetation so it's already hard enough getting protein in my system so this would be a great way to get it while working out in a regular basis. My question is what type of protein powder should I get? I'm wanting to get well defined muscles (I'm a female but I want pretty defined muscles). I don't know if there are protein powders better for women or for begginers? If you know anything about this let me know :) (link)
The best thing for you to see a nutritionist if you can. They should be able to give you accurate information and good advice. Or you can look it up online. Make sure you research the ingredients too. Look up benefits and side effects. Good luck.


My husband is in the military and after 13 years he is separating due to medical reasons. He wants to move back to our hometown to be near both of our families, primarily his mother and aunt. Well, I am hesitate. I didn't have the best childhood due to both of my parents being alcoholics. They both still drink heavily and can get violent and emotional when doing so. My oldest brother still lives in the area and drinks excessively as well. To top it off, my sister-in-law and her husband live about an hour away and love to drink and party and are somewhat open swingers. Their sexually active 15 year old daughter is free to do as she pleases and their 12 year old son is often left on his own. While I respect my husband for wanting to be near his mother and his disabled aunt, I am having a hard time dealing with the fact of being near the rest of our family. While it would be nice to be near family, this is not the situation I have envisioned. I don't want our children thinking drinking excessively and having multiple partners is okay. Should I accept the fact we are moving back and deal with the situation as it comes or continue trying to talk my husband into moving somewhere else? (link)
I understand where you are coming from. My family consists of alcoholics and drug users, when they get drunk they fight. The majority of the policemen in town know my family by name. All of my 4 sisters had children when they were not ready, with guys that don’t want the responsibility. I’m the only one who didn’t do any of those things because I saw how their loves turn out. I’m always scared to bring friends over. I never tell them about my boyfriends or him about them either because I am embarrassed. I worry about what he would think.
What I think you should do is talk to your husband about your concerns. He’s your husband not your boyfriend. He should know a little something about your family already. If you do decide to move back, limit your contact with your family and make yourself or your kids seem busy. Join some classes or volunteer so when they ask to hang out or see you, you’ll have an excuse.


I feel like my parents dont care about me any more ;( (link)
I had that feeling once. My siblings got into an argument with our mom and tried to turn me against her. They said my mom loved our brother more because he is her first born. I was young and believed them. I focused on the memories of how well my mom treated my brother and the times when she neglected me. I allowed myself to be surrounded by negativity. I forgot the good times when she showed how much she loves me.
My mom was going through a lot of stress and kept it to herself. It made her depressed and her behavior was cold towards me. I regret ever thinking badly of her now that I look back at it. My mom loves all of us. She didn’t tell me what she was going through because she thought I was too young and it would upset me too.
I don’t know if your parents love your or not. But I think you should relax for a moment and watch your parents closely. Try to find out what is going on.


OK. I start medical assistant classes in the fall. And lately I've been thinking about going after a CPC for medical coding.

Medical assistants also do coding. Coding doesn't require any experience and i'm going to be learning it anyway so it's not like I'm going into it without ANY education.

I also know that if I pass the CPC exam, then I'll only get it as an apprentice until I either get more experience after 2 years or I do a program by the AAPC doing operative notes. Which I plan to do. So I understand that.

My question is, Since I'm doing medical assisting, would getting my MA degree be considered experience in coding?

I'm really feeling conflicted.

Thanks in advance. (link)
It would because medical assistants learn basic coding. It should be listed in the classes you have to take. You should ask your academic counselor that person should be able to give you answers.

I graduated as medical biller and coder and had a more in depth learning of it but I have some medical assistant friends who told me about it.




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