Member Since: May 4, 2013
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Last Update: May 4, 2013
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Nothing makes me feel happy anymore. I have no drive to do anything. I have been to various doctors and taken various medications but nothing helps. Im not sad or anything just really un interested in doing anything.
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Try to keep a good daily routine first, exercise in the morning, eat and sleep well. You might have to push yourself first but do not give up and be firm with yourself. Read a motivating life quote everyday. See one object of nature everyday, like a bird, trees and feel the love, harmony and discipline of nature where everything is so disciplined, then why can't you have a good life. You just have to work towards it.
Find out what you like doing, or else join a hobby class, learn painting, music or photography.
Plan for each day in the morning and give yourself praise on what you could accomplish that day. Never doubt yourself and push away negative thoughts at once by being conscious and aware of yourself and witness your reaction to others and how you could improve it. Spread joy and you will get abundance of it back in your life.
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I'm new to this website. I'll be honest and tell you I am currently drinking whiskey and high on xanax. Avoid your judgement. I think this way when I'm sober but I say it when i'm not anxious. My personal belief, stemming from an extensive amount of experiences with death and after coming to the full realization and acceptance that I will die at some point, is that death is simply a transitional period for our lives. This conscious part(i.e. the part that allows me to do this and 'live' the daily grind) isn't the only aspect of my life. This is just one period my soul..mind..spirit(whatever you want to call it) goes through before proceeding to the next level. So, my question is: Is it suicide if i'm just choosing to change consciousness? Please save me the organized religious bull shit and the bible quotes. I want to know what honest, real people think of that. I'm not asking for help. I'm asking if there's anyone else that understands where i'm coming from. No rush on response. I'm going to save this site in my favorites and check periodically. I honestly just want to set a death date for myself within the next two decades so I can finally start living my life the way I want to. It'll just be more comforting to know a few people think this is reasonable/understandable. (link)
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Now I believe you are in the wrong profession or workplace which you are referring to as daily grind. We all have to live routine life eat, sleep, work....these are essential needs. After that spiritual question why are we here? What is the purpose of life etc. Now after reading and experiencing lots of ups and downs in my life I can tell you all of us are going through similar doubts.
I really found solace in the fact that we should live with conscious mind, give and receive love & care, help others and believe that joy can be doubled if you spread it.
Sometimes u may feel this world is too harsh on us, try to change your outlook towards it by reading spiritual quotes.
Observe nature, spend time in natural surroundings, see the harmony and feel the serenity in it.....Only you will be the loser if you don't live on this beautiful planet and enjoy this lifetime as you just have to take your own responsibility first and if possible towards others in your family and when you become old and wise try to give and share what you learnt with others.
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I have no idea what I'm good at doing. My own mind is poisoned by self doubt; others tell me what they think I want to hear. I havn't me t a councillor I can trust to really look at that simple question and work towards discovering the answer. (link)
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I think going to a career counsellor is a good idea. You need to decide a career or a course for yourself. Just spend few days reading on net about different professions based on your choice of subject. You definitely have to choose the subject first, do you want to study science, computers, biology, arts, history, Maths etc. interests in these subjects become clear in school itself.
You have not mentioned your age. Hobbies like photography, painting, singing, dancing, sports if pursued seriously can become highly paid career options. For these you must understand weather you are good at motor, visual or audio skills.
Also stop thinking too much and do proper research to take action. All the best!
PS: Read inspirational quotes everyday to boost your confidence.
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