Member Since: July 16, 2014
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Last Update: July 27, 2014
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I'm 21/f and he is 24/m
We have been together for 3 months. Well, for the first time in years, I was finally happy. I was with a man i never argued with, and someone who seemed they appreciated me. Well Sunday, July 20th- I heard from his cousin he was talking to his ex before me. I asked the ex, she confirmed. When I confronted him, he lied about it but soon confessed and said that he may have gave her reasons to think he wanted her back, blah blah blah, but that he didn't mean it and only spoke to her because he thought he was going to lose me although I gave him no reason to think so. He promised me he wouldn't talk to her, but I wasn't fooled. Three days after, things were good. He wasn't talking to her. Well Thursday was the last day i have seen him. Friday he was acting very weird. Very distant, not texting the same. Taking hours to text me back. But yet was in the phone with his ex till midnight.. Wouldn't answer his phone calls. Well he continued to act weird so i straight out said "if this isn't what you want anymore, just tell me and I'll back off. I just want you happy" and his reply was "I do want this baby. You make me happy" Today he told me I'd get to see him and about 15 minuted before i was to go get him, he said "I can't stop throwing up. I'm so sick". Something to me wasn't right. I asked his cousin and she said he didn't throw up at all and that he just left the house walking and no one knew where he went. His mom thought he was with me and wasn't. That was at 5 that evening. I texted him multiple times and he received the texts but never read them.. (We have att iPhones) well my friend texted him around 10 that night and my "bf" replied back quickly. But yet my messages were never read.
Well a friend of ours made a status about honesty and I commented taking about liars, and my "bf" liked my comment but had yet to reply to my messages. I told him I was done and couldn't do this anymore and NOTHING.
I'm just confused. Idk what happened. Everything was great until I confronted him about his ex last Sunday. And I've made sure not to do anything to push him away. I'm just more hurt trying it figure out what happened then us being done.
Any ideas?? Any tips??
He said I was everything he's ever wanted. That he was in love with me and wanted to carry a long lasting journey together. We never fought. Spent every day together which was his idea; and always laughed and affectionate. Luckily we were never sexually active with one another.
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It's over. sounds like he is up to no good.
He was trying to hide his ex and you found out, this is a lost cause and you should let it go. The way he is acting clearly shows he no longer wants you around sadly, from what I read he doesn't seem to be good relationship material, just be happy it wasnt longer down the road.
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