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Hmmm...my name is emily, i'm 13. I'm really outgoing. I'm shy at first, but once I get to know you i'm really open. I really like helping people out with, everything. That's why I joined this place. I hope I can help you with your questions.

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well me and my boyfriend have been together 9 months now and everything is great i guess we hang out alot and everything and the first 4 months of our relationship we just talked on the phone alot and hung out a little now we hang out more and were talking on the phoen the same but its kinda like everytime we get on the phone we sit and listen to eachother breath!!! he complains about it alot but i just cant think of anything to talk to him about! i mean i love him alot and i dont want things to end but is this soposto be telling me somthing? do you have anything to tell me? talk topics? anything?

this might sound a little corny, but why don't you, before you call him, think up of some conversation starters. like what did you do today? what are you doing this weekend. stuff like that. it's really easy. it's normal to have nothing to say after a while. but try to keep the talking going.

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okay im 14/f...and ive been best friends with this guy for 3 years and hes been in love with me for 3 years, we've never done anything sexually er w/e..but hes been wait'n on me fer 3 years and ive had like 5 er 6 boyfriends in the last 3 years but he still stuck with me...soo i went out with this one guy over the summer and at the beggining of the school year for 3 months and i broke up with him and my best friend was rly sad b/c i went out with him..and it never rly bothered him before but then when me and this guy broke up my best friend caught us in the hallway makin out and that lead him to cutting...witch i got him to stop that now but i felt rly bad...but now i dont like my ex-boyfriend and ive ALWAYS had feelings for my best friend but i never realized how strong they were this past like month....and i mean hes always loved me and hes always been there for me so i dont know if i should go out with him or just be friends...b/c i mean we do everything together and wherever you find him youll find me and wherever you find me youll find him...so i rly dont know what to do b/c my ex-boyfriend is still in love with me and i dont know b/c i dont wanna hurt him by goin out with my best friend er w/e so what do you think i should do? should i hook up with my best friend?

maybe you should tell him how you feel, i know it's not easy and i know a lot of people probably tell you that about a lot of things. but it will make you and him feel SOOO much better. it's hard to try to make two people happy, but do what you think is the best. maybe you could just be friends with both of them. but never do something unless it makes you happy.

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my dog died...and i am having trouble getting over her death...what should i do?

i know how hard it is, i had a dog that died two years ago, and i still get really sad when i think about her. just try to know that she's in good hands. maybe keep a picture of her by your bed. remember the good times, don't think about her death.

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im in love with this guy. weve been going out for almost 9 months. its real love, not just your average 14 year old junk. anyway.. i just totally dont feel like i deserve him. hes way too good for me. he loves me and he wants to be with me, but i just want the best for him. last night i broke up with him because i think he can do so much better. i want him to be with someone that does deserve him. i cant stop crying and i stole his cape (dont ask) and im attached to it. i miss him so much. but weve broken up and gotten back together so many times, it wouldnt be fair if i got back with him now. what should i do? please help me!

maybe what you don't realize, is that he really does love you. if he loves you he obviously loves you for a reason. the good thing is, you aren't being selfish. you still love him, but you don't think you deserve him. i think you should tell him how you feel. he'd like to know. maybe i didn't convince you about it, but maybe he will.

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