hey guys! my name is Danielle and i am 15 years old. i know that i may seem young, but i am very good at giving advice. i have so much experience when it comes to relationships, a broken heart, family issues, rough times, things that are hard to cope with�school�i know it all�ive been through it all. And i can help answer your questions and even tell you a tale or two of my own to see if that helps, cuz sometimes it helps to learn from other peoples mistakes. My motto is, nobody ever has a problem, they simply are having a rough time and are asking for help. Dont be afraid to ask me anything. I try to check up on this every day and i�ll put a lot of thought into trying to help you guys out. remember, its never wrong to ask for help.
thanx tonzz guys
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Dan is 18, he never talked to me during school and then all of the sudden he started calling me a lot. As in every day. I tried to avoid talking to him on the phone because I don't really enjoy talking to him. I tolorated it, but now he wants to go to the movies with me. I told him I'd talk to him later about it, because I didn't want to crush him because I know how guys are when they get rejected. So yeah, I think he is calling today and I don't know what to tell him. I don't like talking to him on the phone and I deffinatly do not want to go to the movies with him. Any suggestions on what to do/say when he calls? (I'm not the kind of person that would say something like "STOP CALLING ME! IT'S WERID!" or "eww no i'd never go to the movies with you"). Thanks so much! =) (link)
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okay...i have had the same problem...this guy named brandon, really liked me. He talked to me during school every day and then he started calling me a lot. Every single day...more than once a day. He too asked me to the movies and to go on dates with him and such. But i didnt like him. I didnt really like anyone so i could tell him that i liked someone else. I had no clue what to do. Then he called again. I decided to stop ignoring the calls and answer it. He asked me to go to the movies with him and then dinner. He said he was buying. so i said this, "brandon, you're a really nice guy, but im not looking for love right now. Im sure you would be a great boyfriend because your a great guy...but im not looking for a relationship dating wise. I just dont think that right now, im really up for dating. Im sry, but i really do think your a nice guy so please dont think that i dont."
yes he took it kind of hard, but what is a girl to do?
yes...never say "eww no id never go to the movies with you." or "STOP CALLING ME! ITS WIERD!" that is the worst way to go so good for you for not being that kind of person. =]
if you just try saying something like i said, im sure it will help you out a little bit. He may take it hard, but trust me...all guy take rejection hard...but girls take it harder...everyone hates rejection..but dont worry about it. It will become less annoying as time passes.
hope that helps
love,
Danielle
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ok i just started dateing this guy iv liked for a while,and we call each other all the time everythings going fine but the other day i went over to his house n we were watching a movie on his couch, we were cuddeling pretty close when out of no were he says "i love u" n i thought it was pretty cute so i looked up to kiss him on the cheek but he turns his head n i kissed him on the mouth so i pulled back(iv never kissed a guy before)but before i knew it we were makeing out, and now i look back on it now and i feel stupid for makeing out with him on our first date and think that he will think that im easy and like me for who i am not what i am.i no i should talk to him but i kinda feel like it was my fault in the first place. gawd im so confused!
what should i do??? (link)
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hey there! okay well i def. dont think it was ur fault...but it's not his either. i have been in your situation before. I dated this guy and we had been going out for literally like 2 hours...and we started making out all of a sudden and we didnt stop for quite a while. And then i started to realize that every time we hung out, he would make out with me. So i talked to him about it. Conversation is the best way to go. and whatever you do, dont avoid him! but anyways...i talked to him and said this , "okay, i have been thinking. I really like you...a lot...but every time we hang out, all we do is make out and we barely ever talk. It is starting to feel to me, that you love me not for who i am, but for what i have. And i know that i made out with you too, but i think we should talk more and get to know each other even better than we know each other now"
Now i didnt think that was going to work...but it did to my surprise. it really helps to talk to them about it. If he really loves you, he will listen to what you have to say and he will not be afraid to talk to you about it.
Dont feel stupid for making out with him...yes it was the first date, but my suggestion is to hold off on the making out for a while. Get to know each other better. Alittle making out on the side never hurt anyone...hehe...but dont do it all the time because it takes the spark out of things. Your know what im saying? With guys, making out is a good thing...but if it becomes too much of a good thing...they could get bored and want to move on to other things which you might be uncomfortable with...that is just how guys are.
okay well that's my advice for you...sorry its long but i hope it helps.
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