Member Since: August 15, 2006
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Last Update: August 18, 2006
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I am very forgetful. I have a very short memory and can't even remember what I ate a couple of nights ago or what I wore. I often tell people about my experiences like something interesting happening or about a party that I went to, but I tell people again, and not even realize that I told them the first time. Help? (link)
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Alright, I've been here before. What you ate or wore isn't that important, but I know what you're getting out. I've found that if I want to remember something, I'll just repeat it to myself a lot (ex: Joe's birthday is January 2nd, Joe's birthday is January 2nd) or making it stand out in my mind in some way like making a rhyme out of the words or something.
My best advice is to start being aware of what you want to remember.
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hi =]
okayyy so i'm 5'7 probably and i weigh 107 pounds but i want to get down to 100 before school starts and don't give me some big speech about how it's not good to loose weight because i'm doing it but alright so... i don't eat that much every now and then and i just drink a lot of water and i work out like...45 minutes every day and i started all this about a week ago so does anyone have any advice on how to lose it fast? i want to be down to 104 by sunday please and thank you =] (link)
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Alright, so, you REALLY shouldn't be 107 at 5' 7". Really. You've got to be so tiny--if you get much worse you're just going to look gross and why do you want that? But I will say this and I'm not lying; you should eat often and regularly. It will actually help you lose weight if you combine it with exercise. When you don't eat normally, your body stores the food that you do give it, thus making it almost impossible to lose it. I would like to know why you want to lose the weight though. Weight isn't necessarily the goal; looking good is, right?
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Might be stupid, but I need help.
I'm 14 years old, going into 8th grade and there's this really cute boy.
I've told my mom, because it kinda slipped out...somethimg like that.
First of all, I thought this guy likes me because he once talked to me and more things in the past when I didn't notice him even!
Now I do, and I majorly like him. He's the perfect guy. I call him, and he's annoyed...is this a sign he doesn't really like me? Should I just forget it and find someone else?
-Any info helps...thanks (link)
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Maybe hang out with him a bit more? Talk to him, get to know him? If he's nervous, he'll pro'lly relax enough to go back to normal if you do. If he's acting like a jerk though...move on. He's not worth it.
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alright. so i met this kid through my ex best friend. but we still talk we don't really like each other but now we have been talking more. and i met this boy on the phone one night and i gave him my myspace. and we started talking and stuff and that night he asked me out. i was really sure. but he's from another town so I know I wouldn't get too attached. But now he tells me he wants me(like sexual) all the time. and I only met him 1 time. and he tried kissing me that night. but we were going out for 1 day so i pushed away and i didn't kiss him. he got really embaressed i mean i felt bad but there was nothing i could do. then we skated on the couples songs and he was holding my hand he was like are we ever gonna do anything? i was like no and he got kinda mad.( by the way i met him at a rollar place cuz thats where i was going with my camp and he drove up 20 mins away for me. and it was really cute. everyone told me to dump him but he's really sweet. they want me to dump him cuz he's ugly. but i won't i'm not like that.
I'm not sure what to do. and I'm not sure if I should say anything about his fasical hair(omgg really bad turn off)
please helpp me. and let me know if you have myspace or aim (link)
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Yeah, I say dump him. If he was that forward when you just met I'm betting he's just using you. Find someone closer to you.
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I get really shy around a lot of people. I hate it, because when i'm around a guy I really like I get shy. How do I become less shy. I hate it!!! I really need help. I hardly talk to people cuz i'm sooo shy. Someone please help,
And guys please tell me how I can talk to guys and not sound like an idiot. Lol. Like what should I say? I don't want to come off too strong or like be too shy, please help. Thanks a bunch!! (link)
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Alright, I was really, horribly shy a few years ago...
First off, do you ever get horrible nervous when you have to give presentations in front of class? Then make a point to do it. Force yourself into situations wehre people eyes are on you; answer questions in class, or whatever.
Second, do you have any problems with how you look? Glasses, braces, acne, weight? There are some things you can fix, some you can't. If it's within your ability to do so, then fix it. Don't like your glasses? Get cool ones that suit you. Get acne creams. Work out and eat right. You get my point. A lot of people say, "Be comfortable with who you are." And I agree wholeheartedly, but I know if something is physically wrong with me and that was one of the major things that made me shy.
Third, what are you interested in? Soccer? Theatre? Art? Dance? Religion? Math!?! Figure out what your interests are and pursue them. You'll meet people through clubs or whatever, and it will give you something to talk about when you first meet someone.
Fourth, when you see/know a guy you like...make the first move. Example: at a water park this summer there was this cute guy, and I wanted to talk to him. I kept to myself for a minute as him and his sister played, and in the middle of one of his sentences, she just turned and walked away. This was a good opening: I said, "Wow, that was rude." With a smile. He agreed and suddenly we were trading stories and carring on...my point is it is all about timing and looking for openings. And letting the other person talk. AND DON'T GO TO CAUSUAL CONVERSATION. All that does is make things awkward. Ask questions. Make obsevations. Comment, but be gentle, and most importantly, remember that he's just like you, your friends, whoever. If it would be uncomfortable for you, it would be for him.
Hope this helps!
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should i get surgery on my nose....i really hate how its kinda up pointed...and should i get surgery on my ear..cause one of my ears got messed up.. when my dad abused me..when i was little..btw i dont live with him........sum people tell me my ears look fine but i can tell where one is messed up...should i get surgery..im probly gonna get surgery any way i just wanna know what you think?? 14 almost 15 in a month=D/f (link)
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I also think you should wait until you're at least eighteen, but I also side with you getting it done. I know how distracting it can be when you KNOW something is wrong physically...even if others don't, you do. If it would make you feel better, then go for it. But definately be careful. There are a lot of people who are just out for your money...get a doctor with a good reputation.
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