Member Since: April 7, 2011
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Name key (fake names):
Me: Annabeth
Boyfriend: Jaysyn
I'm 16, a sophomore in high school. My boyfriend, Jaysyn, is a senior, 18. He's really sweet, and it didn't take me long to fall head over heels for him. I met him last year when I was a freshmen and he was a junior, and we started dating one month later. He was always very sweet and understanding about the whole sex thing: he wanted it, but every time I tried, I told him the truth--I'm no where near being ready for that, even if I might want it. Every time I said so, he was really sweet, saying he understood and wouldn't dream of making me do anything I wasn't ready to do. Lately, he's been going back on that promise. He's been getting kind of physical about it, too. Pushing me and shoving me and stuff; a couple of months ago we were at his house watching TV in his room because he gets free movies on his XBox through netflix, and he started kissing my neck and touching my leg and stuff. He was getting really touchy, and pushed his hand away and told me to stop, and he got really mad and he raised his hand as if he was going to hit me, but instead he just pushed me away from him, and I almost fell off the couch. I left when he did that and I went home. He called me five times an hour all night after that, and almost ten times the next day. Since then, he's been getting more violently, and touchy feely and rough, and when I deny him sex he gets really pissed. Last night I got up to leave and he grabbed my arm so hard I thought my wrist would break. Then he pushed me and I fell into the table--my knees are bruised. He called me a whore and a tease and told me I was being a bitch, and I left. This morning we had a date, and I didn't expect or want to go on the date after last night, but he showed up at my house right on time. I told him to go away and started to close the door, but he forced his way into the house and apologized for last night and got my oat from the closet and we went out and actually had a good time. He was really sweet, and he acted as though last night never happened. What do I do? (link)
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I agree with the others, get out of this relationship Now! he does not value your moral standards, if he loved you, he will respect your wish's.stop going out with this guy, you are young and beautiful and there will be many wonderful young men who will come along for you to date and enjoy their friendship.This is the time to date casually and focus on your career.Guys like these could be detected as future wife beaters, STAY AWAY from him.
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I have fallen in love with someone who doesnt feel the same. when he's infront of me he's like the sweetest person in the world, everyone who knows us are always saying what a good couple we'd make, people already think we're dating! however, when he isn't around me, say we dont see eachother for a bit he'd completely ignore me. well, ive fallen in love with him now and i cant get him out my head. he is not interestd as i told him how i feel, he told me staight up hes not interested and he has a girl. but i dont understand why he gets jelous when i talk to other boys though. he still stays with me all day at work, we have a laugh, he just doesnt want a relationship. he stares at me, touches me, jokes about and shows he cares but i really dont understand it. please give me some advice to get over him?
Female 18 (link)
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If you really love him very deeply and you think you can't live without him then perhaps try some magic! he will come around but it's up to you.
If not! just occupy your self with friends, movies sports etc and focus whats more imprtant to you and last resort pray for peace and comfort and to be released from bondage called LOVE!
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What is the most painless way to commit suicide (link)
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suicide is wrong! God has given you a life to live to it's full abundance and if you think you want to end it, you will be held accountable for your deeds by the God who gave you that life. Get some help from a professional.
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I am a 33 year old woman who is confused, I have four older siblings who were sexually abused by our grandfather, the closest sibling is six years older than me and when I was six my grandfather died of bowel cancer, he did not have a very prolonged illness maybe 2 years. I am worried that I may have been abused by him as well because of the following:-
1. I distrust men, including family members.
2. I find incest storylines erotic.
3. I have extreme problems with intimacy - hence why I am a 33 year old virgin.
4. I have suffered depression and suicidal attempts from the age of about 7 and as far as I know I had no reason to be unhappy, I was well loved, well fed and housed.
Because I would have been under 4 years old I may not remember it and I am very afraid to ask my mum as she has had several boughts of cancer and already feels she let me down when I was growing up by working so hard. If I know if there is or isn't something wrong I can deal with it, its the not knowing that is the problem.
Thanks for your help in advance. :) (link)
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If you don't remember anything I don't see why you want to dig into the matter and open a can of worms. My point is let sleeping dogs lay. Just pray for comfort and the almighty will give you peace.
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I am 18 and about to graduate high school and I want to go camping with my boyfriend, but my mom don't want me to. So is it a bad thing to go camping with my boyfriend? (link)
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There's nothing bad about going camping with your boyfriend.Depends what you get up to with you boyfriend if you are sharing a tent I think your mum is conserned about you losing your moral standards.You know what I mean.If you have introduced your boyfriend to you mum and have built a relationship of trust between them, Then I don't see why there should be a problem. I guess it's up to you in the end to put the record straight that there won't be any serious hanky panky.
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