Member Since: June 10, 2015
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Last Update: June 10, 2015
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I am a guy and this past November I did some experimenting with other guys. Okay one guy. I got the nerve to tell him how I felt and all of my other questions regarding guys is directed at him directly. I was close friends with him and still am to this very day. I finally got the nerve to tell him how I felt about him and I hugged him all the time like a relationship based hug and it was like a boyfriend girlfriend type hug but like everytime I would go to do it I would get scared and nervous to go in and do it and nobody judged us but at the same time he is straight. There was an occasion where I was crying and he grabbed me around my stomach and gave me a hugeee bear hug where he dragged me, danced with me in his arms even though I wouldn’t do it too and I liked it but I just could never do it to him. I attempted to kiss him but I wouldn’t tell go for it also. Like am I shy or something? I am a 15 year old male (link)
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Your not shy! It just seems like your just scared of opening up to others about this other side to your personality that you've never fully explored before! I have friends who went through the same problem and they just needed to talk it out before they were comfortable enough to express their feelings through physical means. And maybe your still secretly scared that this friend won't be as comfortable as you are, or that the people around you are secretly judging you.
-CaptinCay
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I im from Texas . my name is well ... that doesn't really matter . I've been sexually touched by 3 family members in my whole life .it all started when I was 2 . my mom even cried when she heard she was having a girl I was the accident child. every close relationship I have with a male gender , I always let them sexual touch me because im to scared to say anything . one of them lives in my house and they sexually touch me . I try myself to sleep . I have cuts all over me . I hate my body . I wish someone knew . I wish I would open my mouth ... but im scared . I don't want to live in a world where kids get abusive . because I was that girl . people might say I deserved it but I didn't . I was only 14 years old and I was only Abby . (link)
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You need to tell someone! Holding this secret in is just going to cause you stress and make you feel guilty. Find a trustworthy adult in your life, like a friends parents, a counselor, or a close teacher. Even if your scared of telling someone, it isn't worth getting abused and feeling insecure about yourself. When your 14, you need to feel confident and sure of what you do. And you should never feel bad about your body. Try talking to a close friend, everyone feels that way. And you shouldn't be scared! You should be more scared of keeping it a secret!
-CaptinCay
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