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Is is unreasonable to be bothered by a stupid sexual mistake your bf made some 4 years ago?
He was honest with me from the start - he was at a party, had been drinking, and got oral sex from a stranger. Didn't know her name and it was so bad he had to masterbate to get himself off in front of her. I think that part gets to me the most. =/
I just can't imagine him doing something like that. He says he's never regretted something so much. But it still gets to me, considering we took everything really slow and here he was sharing something really intimate with a girl he didn't even know, and wouldn't know now. I find I ask a lot of details about it even though the details really haunt me, I feel I *have* to know.
So what do I do about this? Why is it such a big deal to me? I realize teenagers will make a lot of mistakes especially when it comes to sex, but this seems worse than a lot of people (at least they do it with people they know, for example)
Ugh. Help me. Thanks.
21.f
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Well, you will have to factor a couple of things here.
First, he was drinking and at the time of the act probably drunk to the point where moral logic and common sense were kindly asked to fuck off.
Secondly, he actually chose to tell you about this experience. This proves many things about this boyfriend of yours. He loves you and respects you well enough for you to know about the regrets that he has had in his life.
But something in the back of my mind keep nagging at me to ask, where you two together when this event happened?
If the answer to the above question in no, then I suggest you let it go and find something else to worry about.
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Why is it that everyboy in school tells you that they don't like you but they do?
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Its not just every boy, but every girl goes through this one stage in their life when they are afraid to let out their true feelings for a person on the count that there is a chance of rejection. So the fear of being rejected and being left in the dust accounts for why most boys and girls hide their feelings toward other people.
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well us girls and boys know when you like someone you cant get enough of them and you like this person so much that you would do anything for them. i feel this about this certain boy and the sad thing is im not sure if he likes me to. we flirt allot but theres this other boy who flirts with me too and hes always getting in the way like he doesnt want us to get together as soon as me and this boy get close he always buts in what does this mean and what shall i do about this boy who i think i love? thankss guyss L.y x
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I suggest you sort your own feelings out and decide which boy you want to start a relationship with. Take some time off for yourself and make sure you don't take to neither of them for a day or two or until you make your decision.
Until you make your decision you just have to take a chance to see if you will make a connection. Don't be afraid to try, because the worse thing you can do is not try and live with the constant "What if?" question that will linger in the back of your mind. Trust me when I say that that is the worst that can happen.
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i need to write a poem asap about an inatimate object, and what its like to be one maybe.it would be good for it to rhyme and not be too cliche. i wanna write mine about the sun and i need suggestions and poetic things i could say about the sun. please help!!
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Well, you could write about what the sun reminds you of: ie, food, other objects or people. Write about the significance of the sun and how it effects your world.
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i really want a summer love. i've never had one. any love actually. but i know im ready and i really want someone to cuddle with and stuff. so my question is where is the best place to meet guys who are friendly and perferably single for a 16 year old girl to meet? thanks. (link)
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You are letting your emotions get the best of you. You will have to remember not to fall in love too fast or else your going to fall on your face.
Desperation is not a good reason to fall in love. It usually ends bad when it happens that way, its like seeing a blind man wandering a mine field.
Just be patient with yourself and just put yourself out there for them to see you. They will come to you if you wait long enough.
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