Member Since: January 4, 2014
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Last Update: April 16, 2014
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why douse my dad abuse me ? can someone please tell me why ? (link)
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Dont judge yourself by the way people treat you- look at Jesus- he was treated so badly, in fact, crucified yet he was really nice
If you are being physically/ sexually or paychologically abused, you MUST tell someone- obviously, you're telling me, and im advising you to talk to your school counsellor if they are nice, a teacher- again, if you think you can trust them
I do not know how ol you are ir where you are.
Its quite scary to think about reportung vecause you probably dont want to make a big deal, but sometimes you have to
I there a family counsellor in your area?
Sometimes people become verbally abusive if they lack the skills to parent or become frustrated
What do you think of my advice?
Talk to me
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Well, it's like this.
"Tommy" is one of my closest friends. At school, we always talk and hang out with the group. He's charming, funny and means the world to me. Now, I kinda developed feelings for him to the point that I want to hug him (and, surprisingly, kiss him), and be with him ALL the time, and it keeps distracting my thoughts. I just can't fall out of love in an instant or just suddenly minimize our ''talking time.'' It is now a nuisance to my thoughts, my actions, my time, my studies, and the list goes on. But the catch is that I neither want to replace nor remove him and my feelings from my thoughts, for it is almost impossible for me in the meantime (haha).
Now, my question is: How do I transform him from a 'distraction' into a 'inspiration'? What should I think? What should I do? (link)
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Here is what you do:
1) convince yourself that good grades are sexy and then flash your 'A' at him
2) view him as an essay in motion or a mathematical equation in the flesh so that when you write an essay or do math you'll feel close to him
Let ne know if this works xo
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Hi, I'm a teenage girl and I've always felt there's something wrong with me because of the way everyone treats me. They always leave me out, and I am a gal who usually goes with the flow, but to be honest with you, I'm tired of being silent. I have no friends, the people I hang with make fun of me, laugh at me, and some kick/hit me. I've been stressing over this matter for 5 years. I've spoke to some people about this and they've said its the things I focus on, apparently, that is why people treat me different. Others say I need to find help. Believe it or not, I've considered self harm because this is eating me alive! It's like this little trigger in my brain, it goes off every time someone treats me strange. People never smile at me, they just stare and watch me, some will nod their head at me and look at me with hatred in their eyes...Why won't anyone tell me what's wrong with me? What is wrong with me? (link)
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Hi,
Why blame yourself?
People probably feel threatened by you- could possibly lash out at you because they cant handle the truth of their own selves.
Better to be alone and focused on something you are interested in than looking to other people fir your self worth-
Dont judge your internals by other peoples externals, and forget about self harn- they wouldnt notice anyway so why punish yourself! Live life, work hard, study, travel- see the world baby! Xoxi
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