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Okay, So my friend told me she got pregnant but
she's still a virgin.
Can you really get pregnant even though your a
virgin? (link)
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Nope, not possible. I would ask her what her definition of a virgin is.
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i am an 18 year old female.
alright so i have a best guy friend, i adore the kid i really do like him and i am pretty sure he knows i have feelings for him and he has tried getting with me before BUT he has a girlfriend of two and a half years. Its weird though because everyone loves his girlfriend, all the guys think she is like the hottest girl in school but when im with him and other people and someone brings her up, he doesnt really say anything and goes on to a new subject. One time he even denied that they ever had sex and they were having sex for like a year already. Maybe he doesnt want people to know, i have no idea. I know all this well because i am one of his best friends. It surprised me, because usually most guys would admit to the fact they have sex with their girlfriend and i do admire that he doesnt go around bragging to anyone about it. Does this mean anything though? Most guys would love talking about their girlfriends i would think, its not like he has anything to be ashamed of. Sometimes i feel like he is looking out for my feelings because i do get irritated when people talk about her because well she has him, and i'm stuck there watching them two be in love. Maybe i am thinking about it too much but he never brings her up, he never talks about her, when someone mentions her name he doesnt go on blabbing about her. Maybe it's just him, but i have never met a guy like this before!? (link)
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It sounds to me like he is being sensative of your feelings because he knows how you feel about him. The quickest way to get his attention is for you to find someone else or pretend to like someone else. Guys like a challenge and as soon as he sees that you aren't there waiting in the wings, it might spur him to action. Show him he might have some competition for your feelings and you might be surprised how quick the girlfriend is gone.
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Alright so me and my best friend nick like each other. He has only had one other girlfriend, and he went out with her for almost three years straight. they never broke up or anything. This really worries me. I've never had a real boyfriend, although i have had "things" with people if that makes sense. So i have never had a first love. Anyways it just worries me because i hear you never forget your first love and since they were each others first boyfriend, girlfriend and they lost their virginity to each other and they did go out for so long i'm just scared he will never be able to like me the same way. I'm scared he will start to miss her and possibly even want to go back to her. I'm scared i won't be able to please him like she did. I'm scared that if we go out and do something, something will remind him of her. Am i wrong for thinking this? Is there anything i can do? Has anyone else had this same feeling or went through something like this? I mean yeah, i've talked to him about it but he doesn't seem to want to talk about her and i don't either because i don't want him to start thinking about her! Get what i mean?
By the way im 18/f (link)
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Calm down, you are way over thinking this! There are no guarnatees in life, but that is what makes it exciting! Exs are exs for a reason, and if he was so happy then he would still be with her. Obviously he likes you because you are you. Comparing yourself to the ex or analyzing their relationship will get you nowhere excpet making you seem insecure and jealous. You need to focus on your relationship with him now and realize that you are who he is with so that must mean that you are one awesome girl! If it helps, guys have short memories, he has probably already forgotten about whats-her-name.
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