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E-mail: xxbreakthestatusquoxx@hotmail.com
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Location: Louisville, Kentucky
Occupation: student
Age: 16
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Member Since: January 7, 2006
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Last Update: August 7, 2008
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I'm a 14 yr. old girl, and something happened to me today that really weirded me out a lot. I was at the mall, and I walked into the restroom stall, and there was a picture of somebody floating in the toilet! I had no clue what to do... Seriously, who does something like that, and why? Does this make me weird that something this random and bizarre-o happened to me, and what should you do when they see that? (link)
haha. well i dont think it was really targeted at you, because wasnt it a random stall? it doesnt make you weird that it happened to you, it could have been anyone. dont worry about it. i guess the best thing that you could do is to ask someone of authority like a security guard why it might be there. other than that, its just another random coincidence at the all, right?


okay this is going to sound really stupid but im a girl and when i get eaten out i tend to really want the person to stop when i guess im supposed to be having an orgasm. i dont know why but it feels like its too much and i really want them to stop..does anyone know why this is happening? (link)
well honestly, this happens to me too. and for a long tiem i cuold never explain it. but it hink why it feels that way is because you are close to having an orgasm, and maybe its not that its not enjoyable so much as, you are uncomfortable with losing control. try letting it go on a little bit longer, and if you reach orgasm, then it should feel really good as opposed as you wanting it to stop. i do understand what you are saying. believe me.


i'm not sure if there's something wrong, but recently i've noticed that when i urinate it smells really awful and my vagina is a wee bit swollen, but i put the swelling down to my boyfriend fingering me the other night, which normally happens. could this be the cause of the smell or could it be something to do with my diet? i'm fairly healthy and haven't changed my diet at all, so could i have an infection?

cheers, help would be greatly appreciated :) (link)
if it is painful, it is something to talk to your doctor about.

however, there are a lot of things that cause urine to stink. for instance, the more water you drink, the more the water can flush out thing sin your body. water is best, but any liquid in general will help. if you are dehydrated then there is no water to concentrate the urine, which is filled with liquid waste, which stinks just like the other stuff. :/

it also could be your diet. fish i know for one, does cause a smell. but a lot of foods do.

my advice is to drink a tom of water, and see if that helps. if it doesnt, then i would suggest talking to your doctor.


so i'm on a birth control shot that you're supposed to get every 11 weeks and i usually don't get my period when im on it but the last few times ive gotten it ive gotten my period way before the 11 weeks is up. So i guess i have two questions. Is the birth control still working even though i get my period? and Should i get the shot more frequently if i'm getting my period when i'm on it? (link)
is the birth control depo provera?

depo is a birth control that i am on, you get the shot supposedly every 11-12 weeks, and you arent supposed to have a period while on it. however, the first 2 shots that you get, or the first 6 months that you are on it, you are still likely to bleed because the lining is clearing out, because you will no longer have a period while on it.

there is no sense in taking more shots, it willbe no more effective, and probably mess with your hormones. there could be serious risks to that. i would suggest talking to your doctor to see whats up.


Me and my best friend both like this boy who is so cute but yesterday he told me that he likes me and not my friend i dont want to hurt her feelings but she keeps throwing herself at him and he doesn't even like her what should i do(female,14) (link)
well, you cant just say "he likes me and not you so get over it." you have to put it delicately so you dont hurt your friends feelings. because you do need to tell her. instead of making a statement, put it in the form of a guess or something like... well we've been talking and he's told me some things, i hope youre okay with that. tell her before he does. because you need to be a good friend. and thats what friends do. but dont throw it in her face.


Today I decided to completley put my faith and trust into God, I really took him into my life today. However, I just started going to church last year so I was never baptised and never confirmed. Can I still expect to go to Heaven? What exactly does being confirmed or baptised mean? (link)
Dear Heaven, I am a Christian and I have been since I was 8. I am 13 now and have recently started geting more into Christianity as I get older. The true meaning of being saved, you do have to be baptized. But before you get baptized (and this is what its all about) the true meaning of being a Christian is believeing that Jesus, the Son of God came to earth in human form died for all of your sins and is the true lord and is your savior, and you need to TRULY believe that with your heart before you want to get baptized. When you are baptized there's no reversing it. You are saved. But ou cant go to heaven without it.




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