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Hello there,its love choice girl again
If you are reading this,you all have the understanding that I fell in love with a man who isnt in my beliefs.My mother believes that by me seeing this man,who loves me so much,I am giving up God.I understand that he doesnt,and I am unsure where his beliefs stand,he is worldly,but his heart is so good and we are so close.
My mom is furious over the fact that he cant see me and just wont have it.She so angry at me,and I feel I have no choice,but to say goodbye to my sweetheart and continue on with my life,without him.I told my mother I would break it off,but she was still upset.I havent said anything to my sweetheart at all.
I,I dont want to.
Im so heartbroken,and I feel like my heart is bleeding to death.
My mom keeps saying shame on me,shame on me,because I have done evil,its not that way,I love God more than anything,and I love this man.'Please,please
Please,what do I do? Please help me (link)
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I am also in a relationship with someone of a different religion. As much as my mother would like me to be with someone of the same faith, as she's very traditional and conservative, I have found that I have to do what my heart tells me is right. Tell me this- do you think God would judge you for unconditionally loving a human being on this planet? Every being is God's child, is God's creation, correct? If part of having faith is also loving God and loving his creation, then how are you really and truly abandoning your faith? In fact, in my opinion, you are doing something incredible! You're defying a tradition on religion and relationships that is ignorant and slowly becoming antiquated.
I have found that my relationship with my significant other is a true blessing. It has actually expanded my faith, and together we have explored God and his plan through each of our own beliefs. I think if you really sit and down and think about it, and even explain this to your mom, she and you will realize that there are many more commonalities between faiths than you think. Part of the issue I understand is communicating this with your mom, who clearly has traditional beliefs. But just remember that your intuition and your heart are generally right. In this life, we have to chart our own path in order to find real happiness.
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Basically like 3 days ago I had sexual intercourse with my ex honestly I feel fucked up I feel like he's only nice to me till he gets what he wants and I'm the biggest idiot ever to go ahead and have sex with him. I feel used and hurt right now cause I know he doesn't want anything serious.. It's like whenever we speak it's sexual. We've been friends since we ended like over 2 years ago but we've only had sex twice since the breakup I honestly don't know what to do cause I feel like I'm emotionally and physically attached I feel so used I wanna cry cause I knew what I was getting myself into I don't know what to do (link)
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I totally understand and get what you're going through. I had basically the exact same relationship with my ex which thankfully ended about 8 months ago.
First, I want to let you know that you are WORTH IT and SPECIAL. It's very normal to feel the way you're feeling about him. You like being around him- it's comforting knowing that he's there. And you're obviously still attracted to him which is why you go ahead and become physical. Part of the reason you keep going back to him is that you still haven't accepted that he doesn't want you as something serious. Part of you has a little hope that maybe, just maybe, things could change.
What I'm telling you shouldn't come as a shock. You already know this. He will not change his mind. It doesn't matter how lucky he is to be with you. A guy like him only wants you for one thing.
Let me tell you, a guy who wants you to be his girlfriend will do everything to make you his. And one day some guy will come into your life and be everything that your ex isn't. He will appreciate you for the wonderful, beautiful girl that you are and will tell you all the time how lucky he is to be yours.
Right now, I encourage you to seek out a healthy relationship. Know that loving yourself and having a good support system help with stuff like this. Wishing you the best of luck!
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