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Member Since: May 12, 2013
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Hello,
I do not have sex all the time, however I did last Sunday. Everytime I have sex I get super paranoid. Best thing you'd say is not have sex, but face it we all do it and it's natural. I had sex this past Sunday, and he wore a condom. He mentioned it was tight and I thought omg.. Anyways condom didn't break. I'm still super paranoid!! Could I be pregnant? I took a test and I know it's too early but I'm very anxious. The thing I keep telling myself is not to worry you aren't and quit having sex. Any advice as to not get so anxious about this? Besides possibly be on the pill.. I hope I'm not preg.
Please help. (link)
if you are truly that worked out about it, you should be on the pill. its easy, and (dont know your age, amusing ur under age, not sure) according to a law Congress passed you can go to the doctor and give you a superscription and you r parents dont have to know.
anxiety, specially over a possible child if u dont want a child at this time in your life,.... isnt necessary. the pill you just take every day and you dont have to worry about if the condom broke, altho i would wear a condom (well have him wear) even if i was on the pill.
the best of luck to you :)


Hi,
So its not that I'm shy, its just that I'm friendly with everyone, but as a result don't have many close friends at the moment.
So I'll be going to Uni this year, and I'm worried about not making friends.
Its annoying, because although I consider myself nice to a lot of people-I think I come across as a pushover or whatever. People don't really bother with me outside class atm.
Also, I feel like I do a lot of the work for people. So if you were about to advise 'just say hi to people', I do this already. Honestly, like I do try with people in class, but they are a bit stand off ish with me-and all I was doing was being friendly!
So how can I make good friends in my first year at uni? (link)
im younger than you, but i feel the same way you do!! i make friends supper easy when i want to,... but none of them were like my bestfriend!! UNTILL i started inviting people to do things with me, even if its a sports game or lunch or a meal or the mall... that's when i started making friends all across the board.... maybe this will help, if not then just try new "moves"
good luck girly :)


How do i get rid of dandruff. I have a bunch and im getting tried of it. When i wash my hair it comes out parctially. Whats the best way to get rid of themm (link)
everything i tell you is what has worked for me!
dont wash your hair everyday! wash your hair every other day.
use dandruff shampoo, BUT study what youre buying b4 you buy it!! you dont want the stuff to prevent you want the stuff you renew renew and get rid of!
use a scalp conditioned (can find this in African american hair styling section)
drink more water
massage your scalp wile you lay in bed
take vitamins

I hope this helps you. PEACESKIES!!


I got burnt on Saturday and now I started pealing today. I have been moisturizing every day but I have pealed anyways. My skin right now is very tan and so my chest now looks very weird. I also have prom tomorrow!!!!! Well technically today... what to do? (link)
well i know this is to late,... but you could have put a heavy cover-up ALLLL OVER your chest and neck (neck to make it look less like you put it on your chest :P ) welp i hope you had fun at your prome :)


Ok i am 12 and this guy asked me to be his girlfriend but i told him i cant because i am not allowed to but i REALLY like him. I dont know if he still likes me though. I told him i would be his gurlfrind but.... i dont know if he still likes me!!! Help!!!!! (link)
if he really liked you, then he still likes you. but if youre 12, then you have plenty of years! trust me, i WASTED my first kiss on a total jerk when i was 13 and i wish i could take it back!!




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