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Ok like i am 14 and i am a guy and i have had a crush on this one guy since 7th grade nd now i am really haveing serious feelings for him,he's in my grade also, and he gives me these weird signals. I really like this guy and wanna have a relationship with him.

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hey i just say you call him and talk to him...try to start a flirty conversation. ask if he wants to hang out. it works for me


hey i like this guy but i dont think he likes me how can i find out? (link)
if he is acting immature around you or like makin fun of you and stuff then that is a sign of him likin u


there is this girl that i love more than anything in the whole world, and i know we love each other. but she has a boyfriend that she cares bout. i dont like anybody else but her. but i figure if i wait too long i will be hurt even more. what the heck do i do (link)
well what is this girls name?? what is your name?? umm i would just be friends with her and then when she breaks up with this guy go for her!


dear advicenators,

i like this boy and he doesnt like me...i want to go out with him but i dotn know what to say....what should i say to him?

love,
sammie (link)
well i like a guy too but idk if he likes me i would just like be his friend and look real cute around him and maybe he will like u!


i liked this guy for a realllly long time, he knows but hes older and my parents dont like him and he only views me as a friend. every1 says how mean he is and stuff but hes extremely nice ta me, i really want to get over him thou because i know nothing will ever happen between us at least not rite away. i really think i am in love with him but i jus wana live my life rite now. i havent even had a stable b/f in soo long because i am so hooked on this guy its ridiculous! how can i get over him?! (link)
hey.,.,.well thig is a good question! because i cant get over a guy either and he knows i like him and he is a jerk but um..i would call him and tell him how u feel and maybe you can date without your parents knowing. good luck!

*R-ChIcK*


Hey I'm Bryant! There is this girl I like and I think she likes me what do i do ? (link)
um...ASK HER OUT! what are you waiting for?!?!? gosh this is an easy one...just tell her how you feel and then she will tell you the same...ask her out


hi..i got a bf but he got another gurl friend what should i do? i wana break up with him and hope he could accept it easily.what should i say to him? even i wana break up,but i still wana be friend with him forever (link)
easy...DUMP HIM! that is soooo cruel that he would go out with someone but you. that is something only a selfish jerk would do. he's not worth it. if he really cares about you he wouldnt be going out with another chick. i am sry to hear that. xoxo good luck- *r-chick*


i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.


thxx (link)
i have that same exact question but um...you should like flirt with guys that you think are hot and after a flirt or two you should ask for their number. you can take it from there. good luck xoxo rach


i like this one guy ALOT!! seriously i cant get him outta my head!! and he now knows that i like him and all my friends r telling me just to ask him out n stuff and i dont want to cuz i just have a huge fear of rejection and i mean ya i rilly wanna go out w/ him but id rather have him ask me out and i mean if i knew for shur that he liked me the same way i like him then i would but i dont know if he does so wut should i do?? (link)
i am in the same EXACT situation, i know what you are feeling. i would just like be friends with him and like let him know how you feel just not only by telling him but by your actions and maybe you will get something out of him :-)


theres this guy that i really really really like and i think he might like me too, but the only problem is that we're like BEST FRIENDS, he's my neighbor, and we've been hanging out since we were two. i don't want to ruin our friendship, but i REALLY like him..what should i do..should i ask him out? or just deal with my feelings. (link)
VEEERRRY good question. i am in this situation too. um...i would not ask him out but just let him know how you feel. tell him that you like him and maybe he feels the same way. if you dont do this then you wont find out what he thinks about you.


ok whenever my friends get together i get jealous like that i'm not invited...i mean obviously i cant be invited to everything but i get jealous anyway..is there something wrong with me? (link)
I was am in this EXACT same situation. i hate it when my friends get together and like when they talk about what they did i seem jealous. so my advice would be, dont let them know that you are jealous. dont let them know that it is bugging you that you arent invited. just be cool about it. Good Luck,
RaCHeL


Sometimes I act like a boy bc I collect cards that like all the boys in my class have. I spend allot of time trading with this boy. Sometimes I think that he likes me. Should I keep on doing cards or act like a girl girl? (link)
hmmm...tricky. actually this has happened to me before. only not with cards...with bike jumping. but um, you should just act like a girl AND play cards with them still and like ask them if they have g/f's and stuff and ask them stuff besides the card game. good luck


There is this guy i wanna see over the summer but he doesnt have a sn and im wayyy to shy to call him what should i do? (link)
ooo girl...i beleive you...you are in the same exact situation that i am in! i have this neighbor guy and he is hot and all but he doesnt have aim...at least i dont think so...lol no he doesnt but um...yah i am WAAAY too shy to call him. just like be brave and call him and ask him how his summer is going. and ask him how he is and then just have a conversation there is no harm in that. good luck!



im 14, and have been with my b/f for about 5 months and today i ACCIDENTLY stuck my hand down the back of his pants. i meant to put my hand in his pocket but i missed! he told me not to be embarrassed but i still kind of am! am i overreacting? (link)
I would say that it would be an embaracing situation but its your boyfriend that you are talking about you shouldnt care so much about it...it was an accident.


hey umm i went out with someone named Kyle 2 years ago for 6 months and i dont kno what happened but we broke up. For a while now i have been getting all the feelings i had back. I really love him so much and i cant get over him! He likes my best friend and my best friend colleen flirts with him back but i told her i dont like him [[ i lied to her ]] and i really like him but its over. what do i do? (link)
That is a very tricky situation. If you know that your friend likes him and he likes her than i would say to just let it go for awhile and see if anything happens with that relationship. But if not you could go back and just tell him how you feel because believe it or not he might feel the same too. Just give yourself time to think about what you really want.


ok well I have got D boobs and I kinda like to show it a little bit (as in where fitted shirts) but like my mom is like makeing me wear baggy shirts and it's aweful I feel so ugly with the way she makes me dress. How do I get her to lighten up? (link)
um...i would just sit her down and tell her you need to talk. Then just like ask her nicely and tell her that you are growing up and you dont need your mom to dress you anymore and tell her that you want a little bit more freedom with the way you dress it might just work!


every time i go around my x b/f he pinches my butt, and i dont like it !!! how do i get him to stop??? (link)
well..see if he is doing stuff to you that you really don't like then the next time he does it to you grab his hand and yell I AM OVER YOU QUIT TOUCHING MY ASS! and then he just might leave you alone. good luck and dont forget to tell him to leave you alone!

:rach:



I am 13 and female and my boyfriend is 15. His friends think he is really dumb for going out with me and i think he might start thinking the same way. What should I do? Keeping in mind that he is also my neighbor. (link)
tor- you are a beautiful girl and you shouldnt let yourself down because mario's friends are being jerks. just talk to him and tell him how your friends make you feel. and if he like says well if you dont like my friends then i dont wanna go out well then fuck him lol (not that he will do that!) i love yah!

:.*RaCH*.:


what if you like this kid ALOT, and he told u he liked u but u werent sure if u could believe him, and u didnt tell him u liked him, and then ur friend started talkin to him, and u were telling him that they should meet and what not and he was like r u serious whats her screen name and w/e.....what if him and u friend end up doing stuff.... (link)
If you really like this guy and he likes you then i would talk to him and tell him how you really feel about him and tell him that you like him too. Just try to have a conversation with him and maybe you'll hit it off!




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