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hi mal,
well i was wondering about this. there is this person that i absolutely adore. like this person is amazing! and he is just a friend right now, but i was wondering if i am in love with him. that thought has been bugging me. what do you think? can i fall in love when im only in junior high?
-concerned (link)
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dear concerned~
of course you can fall in love in junior high! but you can only make sure that it is love by asking god. if you pray and ask god questions, he WILL answer! i know what it is like to completely adore someone! i've been there before!Ü it is an amazing feeling to be in love! and it is usually very annoying if you are just friends...especially when you want it to be more than that. YOU can't figure out if you are in love or not, without god there helping you out. you can only be positive that you are in love by asking god through prayer. he'll answer. he answered me! if you want you can talk to me sometime and we can pray together. i would be completely honored to pray with you!!!:D
and remember...don't douobt god's love, or god's blessing!
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My friend just told me today.. that she ALWAYS throws up after she eats. As much as I'd love to help her, I just dunno what to say. Cuz she might get mad. I don't want anything bad to happen to her. The past couple days shes been telling me that shes been haveing bad stomach pains and she feels sick ALL THE TIME. I wanna help her, I don't wanna make her mad and say the wrong thing though. Should I just forget about it, and let her live her life the way she wants it? What would you do? Please I need help.. =(
*amYy.. my AIM sn is NaInErZzZ (link)
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hey amYy. this is a pretty hard question. let's see...the first thing you need to make sure your friend knows is that no matter what, she will always be beautiful in god's eyes! he loves her exactly how she is. and he created her to be everything she is! i don't know if you are a christian, or not, but either way, everyone needs to pray, and everyone needs to know that eating disorders are VERY dangerous! it's hard to talk to someone that thinks that they are doing the only possible thing to look beautiful. so you are right when you say that you need to be careful. explain to her that you care about her very much and don't want her to get hurt but you feel that puking isn't a very healthy way to make her self feel more confident. tell her how beautiful you think she is already. tell her how much you love her. tell her all of that. and if she still doesn't want to change what she is doing, then pray! everyone needs to pray. and prayer is ALWAYS helpful! god will never turn his back on you. no matter how much you feel you have screwed up. he will always love you!!! no matter what! don't just ignore this. be consistant. because you need to make sure that your friend understands how much danger she is in! this could hurt her very much. so don't let her just do it. make sure that you are always reminding her how beautiful she is, and how dangerous it is to puke daily! i'll pray too!!!good luck with your friend, amYy...((**mAlloRyJaNe**))
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I am starting college in September, seeing I will be meeting a whole bunch of new people and not knowing that many of them. Any ideas of how I can get a lot of friends? (link)
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a great way to make friends is to be yourself. then everyone you meet will know the real you and you won't be 'faking life'. the ONLY way you can make friends is to be yourself. if they don't meet the real you, then they aren't really your friend. so yeah. all i can say, is be yourself. truthfully live life to the fullest, by being yourself! ((**mAlloRyJaNe**))
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i like this guy and me and him have been going on and off for like 6 months and then i finally dumbed him for good then summer came and we stoped being friends and that hurt so much becuz i loved him so much but then i went to this place with my mom for 2 weeks and made some new friends and i met this kid and he was just so nice and sweet and me and him really hit it off and we started dating for the 2 weeks and i then found out that hes going to my skool so now im real happy but everybody keeps asking me oh do u still like well call him "fred" and i go no but today my friend steve asked me do u still like "fred" and i went yeah so now i dont know if i should just stay with my b/f becuz i love him too hes just so hott and sweet to me and everything or if i should dump him and go back out with "fred" im so confused someone please help me asap
im 14 and im a gurl and i need help (link)
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alright. i have been in this situation before. it's a very tough situation! but the first thing to do is pray! prayer can't do anything except help! god can help you sort out all of your emotions and help you know what exactly you need to do. but if you only like your boyfriend because he's hot, then you don't really love him. what i did, was write out all of the qualities that I SAW in them each. and then i soon realized that only one of them really cut it to be my boyfriend. or it might not be that simple, and you might just need to take a break from dating altogether for awhile. then, you can sort out all of your emotions and date the guy you really do love. and hey, by then, you might have met someone even more awesome! but always remember...no guy is ever worth your tears!!! and when you find one that is, he won't make you cry. ((**mAlloRyJaNe**))
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