Hey everyone.
My name is Chrissy, I'm 22 years old.
I'm married and am expecting a baby girl!
I recently started using this website again.
I had forgotten why I loved it so much. There is a feeling of accomplishment that I get when I give others advice to the best of my ability. It makes me feel as though I matter. And I hope it makes others feel the same way.
I work at as a 911 dispatcher so my profession is to help people. If you need any advice just let me know, I will definitely try my best to help you out. I have been through some pretty rough stuff ranging from relationship problems, to self esteem issues, to family violence.
So there is quite a range of things that I can give advice about due to my own experiences.
Ask me anything. (:
Website: Chrissy's Advice
E-mail: princess_all_4_me@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: 911 Dispatcher
Age: 21
Yahoo: princess_all_4_me
Member Since: June 12, 2005
Answers: 37
Last Update: July 23, 2013
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Im 13 and im suffering from rape since i was 9.I was bullied,raped,molested and threatened.I cried,cried and cried but no one hears my voice.I want to be like other children but i am not.I am a bad and dirty girl.I want to end my life and i will and i deserve it.Yesterday I was again raped.Is this why,I came in the world so that people use me like a disposiable toy. (link)
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You are a precious child of God.
What has been happening to you is not your fault.
You are beautiful and worth so much more than this.
By blaming yourself you are letting the abuser win.
Do not let them win. This is their fault, not yours.
You do need to call 911 though, and I hope you have already.
Don't do it in front of the person who is abusing you though, as that might lead to more problems.
I am a 911 dispatcher and I can assure you that the person who answers the phone when you call 911 will help you to the best of their ability.
Everything remains confidential so no one else (Other than the officers) will know any of the details. They will keep it a secret for you.
Everything will be okay. You are loved from me here in Texas. If you need anything just send me a message to my inbox.
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I m weak and have been being called that for 20 years I can't take it I'm ready to leave this place nobody likes me I give people my last an I'm always the one being hurt I fuck hat myself (link)
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I don't have to know any personal details in order to know how to help you. You are not weak. Everything will get better with time, I promise. I have been there and I have contemplated things I shouldn't have. But I prayed and asked God to show me a sign. I opened my Bible to a random page and there it was, my sign. There was a verse right in front of my face that said that it wasn't my time yet and that God would take me when it is my time.
I don't know if you are religious, but that really helped me. Everything will work out.. I promise. Don't give up, just keep fighting.
You are strong and you are worth it.
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