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Hey. My names Christina. I go by that or xtina, stina. Whatever :] I love having energy, but I love to sleep. If you make me laugh ill love you.I never stop smiling. You would never know im sad or going through a tough time. Im pretty good at covering it up. I love having fun and just being me. I hate fake people, or people who act like there too good to talk to you. Its annoying. I love shopping for clothes. Im obessed with stripes! I dont have a reason to be a b!tch or to not like you, but once you do than good luck to ya.I could sit on this website all day and answer every question unforntualy , I do have somewhat of a life.Haha.I strongly dislike when people just give you a number rating. I like feedback so i can improve or just know if what i said was good. I will say the truth but I wont be a b!tch about it. I try to say it in the nicest way possible. I love getting inbox's so dont be shyy!
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my boyfriend and I fooled around last week
and we didnt have sex but he fingered me and we had oral sex.. my question is.. could i be pregnant? we thought his hands were clean and we were careful but lately this past week or so i have been feeling really tired and i have been waking up in the middle of the night and i have been feeling like eating everything and i know im not coming up on my period because i just had it like 2 weeks ago. I'm getting really scared and i cant buy a home pregnancy test because my town is really small and everyone knows my family and i would have no privacy to take it because i have 7 other brothers and sisters.. what are some sure ways to tell if i am? and what are the chances of getting pregnant from fingering?
i rate high.
Sorry not to be rude in my answer but how can you get pregnant from that ? I'm sorry but you just cant get pregnant unless you have sexual intercourse. If your not old enough to know that maybe you shouldnt be having oral sex. You can get other diseases though. There are NO chances of you getting pregnant from getting fingered? i mean how is that possible ? Stop worrying about it. Sorry if that was rude and you can rate me low if you want its just ridiculous how many people ask questions like this.
If you are like 13 or 14, isn't it kind of hard to actually fall in love? It kind of gets me annoyed when my friends say like "i would die without ____" or something like that. Very rarely do people get married to the person they went out with when they were that age. Do you think guys at this age just go out with girls for sex and things like that? Or are there some guys who will wait till your older and feel ready and really love you?
I defiantly agree with your first few sentences. Im 15 and i also still havent been "in love" before. At this age we dont know what love is. I do think most guys just go out to do stuff with girls . And some guys try the old " well if you love me youll sleep with me" try well if your in love it wouldnt matter what youve done together. I think its so ridiculous how many kids are age claim to be in love. Its funny though because when there older there going to be in love and look back and be like " and i thought i was in love"
All guys obviously have in the back of there mind sex. whether they can wait till there older and really love you is the maturity.
im 15 and been with my girlfriend for about 5 months and i really like her we are getting close
im a bit worried to take things further because my penis is quite small im worried what she'll think will it matter?
Put it this way. If she really likes you , shes not going to care. I dont think it even really matters how big or small you are. You cant help it,so it shouldnt matter . In relationships you like the person for who they are not how big something is.
I mean shes probably going to make a judgement about how big or small it is, but I really dont think that will effect her liking you or anything.
Dont worry, and if your not ready yet dont go further until you've dated for longer.
Hope i helped, sorry if i didnt.
xoxo
alllright so my parents will be gone this weekend and my bf is gonna sleep over. im trying to think of some exciting things we could do. we havnt had sex so not that, but anything else is defff possible. so what are some fun ideas that he would like?? id like as many ideas as possible. thanks so much!
I think it would be wicked cute to act like your married. Go out to eat, watch movies, cuddle, make him breakfast. you knoww. cute stuff like that
im a 16 male and i really like another guy we become very close and he seems to like me a lot
im not sure if i should make a move i dont want to freak him out what should i do its not weird to like another guy?
You should talk to him about it and make sure he defiantly does like you, and than when he does , than make a move. Not something big, just something little and cute, but not until you know for sure that he likes you. Good luck :]
my bf came over to my place and couple of my friends were there we watched a dvd and after awhile we were kissing and feeling each other
and when he stood up he had an erection we all noticed and then he got really embarrassed
and ran off home id try to talk to him the next day he still seemed embarrassed about it what can i do to reassure him? do all guys get embarrssed this?
Some guys do get embarrassed and some dont. Id say dont bring it up or anything because hes probably just trying to forget about it. ITs really normal for some guys to be embarrassed, but i wouldnt bring it up . Just let it go :]
I am 13 years of age. I have been put in a situation where I could have sex. I really like the guy and I think he likes me. I am not sure if I should have sex with him or not. I really want to. I need advice. HELPPP!!
Noone can really tell you what to do its all your desison, but your only 13. Im 15 and still havent had sex. Are you mature enough to deal with the consequences? Like accidentally getting pregnant or getting a disease. Also sex should be with someone you love and you know when you're ready. I dont think your even close to ready because you have to ask for advice. Not trying to be mean. Also, chances are hes not going to like you forever , and that is going to break your hurt especailly if you have sex with him because you will be so emotionally attached. I dont really think you should, but its your life.
14/f
well i have this issue. i can't stand myself , and i think i'm rly ugly and everytime i look in the mirrow i start crying. i dunno why but i take pictures of myself and also film myself 2 see if what i see in the mirrow is true , and that mostly makes it even more bad cuz i look worse. i even think about suicide sometimes coz looks are like the most important thing 2 me and say whatever you want , you're not gonna change my mind. but here's the twist....guys always stare at me (like a: "you're hot" stare and not an "you're ugly" stare lool) and my friends tell me i'm sooo pretty and so does my mom. they say i'm like the prettiest girl eva. but the thing is that i always see an extremly ugly girl in the mirrow/camera ..and i mean EXTREMLY UGLY!!! i am soo unhappy most of the time so i just wanted 2 ask if there is something like an illness where you see yourself totally different in the mirrow/camera? i know there is this thingy where you see yourself totally fat but youre like reeeallyyy skinny...but thats not my problem...my problem is my face so is there something like and illness for that? coz if there is i would be soo reliefed coz that means what i see is not true.
and yeah if there is....what can i do 2 "cure" myself
thxx!!!!
No , to be honest, I think its all about confidence and self esteem. You got to believe yourself.I think there is no such thing as ugly . People just have there opinions on whats pretty. You just need to struggle through and look in the mirror and tell yourself "Im Beautiful". Sounds cheessy? Probably. But really it will help. Okay bye
I've been on birth control for about 5 months, I started with Loestrin, then the next three were the microgestin or something, which is a different/cheaper brand of loestrin, then loestrin again. I'm on the third sugarpill tonight for the Loestrin and still haven't gotten my period. Is this normal?
yeah,im on birthcontrol too and i get mine like the the 4th or 5th day of the sugarpill. It just varies, as long as you get it the week of the sugarpills its normal. It may be because you switched and its not adjusted . but its not adnormal or anything.
in your opinion, should sex wait until marriage or before? (if before, then what age is appropriate) just wondering, thank youu
Im defiantly all for until marriage. Its so much easier. The emotional pain you go through when you have sex before marriage is just horrible because your not as commited to the person and you have a chance of being dumped and heartbroken.If you fall in love with someone who is also a virgin and you decide to get married, its such a wonderful gift that you would share together. dont you think? like saving yourself for one person and one person only. I dont know if you think thats boring and lame, but i think its cool. I mean who wants to get married to someone , that you dont know who've they've "been" with. That is just my opinion .