about

Hihi. My first name is Sofia. But no one calls me that. It's either Natasha, Chantal, Chantilly, Chantilly Lace, Sophie, Alex, or Lexi. Sometimes Sexi Lexi, but whatever. I love music, writing, acting, and photography. ♥ I have alot of experience with things; sex, anorexia, guys, bisexualism/lesbianism, ect. Mostly things that have happened this past year. Alot of my friends have started coming to me for advice, and so I think I might have a good shot at giving advice to some other people besides them.

advice

how do you know if ur bi my friend thinks she might be

14/f (shes already gone through puberty)

Well, a few months ago I found myself thinking about the exact same thing. I'm still not exactly sure, as some people said before me, it's not something you can just decide over night.

I've already gone through puberty myself, and I started feeling a slight attraction to the same sex, and the opposite sex at the same time.

Just remember, her having feelings for one person of the same sex doesn't truly make her a bisexual. What you don't want to do is put pressure on her, or make her feel excluded. I know the feeling, and it's not a nice one. You'll want to be supportive, if you can, so that she'll feel comfortable with telling you after she's made the decision herself.

I'm not exactly sure how this helps, but it might be useful either way.
//chantal

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