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guys why do you like boobs so much? i don't get it, they're just like fat sacs. i asked my boyfriend and he said they were "beautiful" hah but i think they're ugly...idk can anyone answer my question? lol

they just feel amazing and are fun to play with for us haha. and when the girl is on top its a little additive of fun to reach up and play with them..ususually girls like that

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ok i have never given a guy a hand job before. I really want to give my bf one but i have no clue how. I don't even know what will happen. I am kinda nervous and i need advice on what to do and what will happen. Also how long should i do it?

ehh theres nothing really too it haha. you just basically lay him down and you take his bottoms off and you pretty much just grab him and go up and down with ur hand fast or slow change it up see what he likes just dont be too rough it might hurt. and i would keep going until he cums..other wise there wouldnt be a point lol. you will probably get some sperm on your hand but thats about it. what you do with it is up to you. wipe it off swallow etc...if you feel comfortable with it you could also put your mouth on it somewhat like on the top or run your tounge down the side where the vein like thing is.

x2yankeesfan2x

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I was fingering myself did not go very deep and then when i was done I started to bleed just a little bit is that normal and it was my first time doing something like that

yes it was normal..it was just your body pretty much saying this has never happened before im not used to it..alot of girls bleed when that first happens..also make sure you didnt scratch yourself some how. you could get a serious infection.

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I want to be able to give my fiance a good time. i thought that if i give him oral then it would be nice. The only other time i have done this is with someone who had thin liquid come out. But my fiances cum is thick and comes out in spirts. I think that i will get sick if i try and swallow it. Is there any way for it to be come thinner like the first?

All guys are different , but i remember along time ago reading something on if you give him a handjob before the oral sex, it will reduce the amount and less will come out, i dont know if it will still squirt or not.
Hope I helped. =]

x2yankeesfan2x

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ok i am like 14 and i am not shy around boys at all ive kissed boys and stuff and i have had them sleep over and didnt do anything...and i am like nervous to make out cause i dont think i know how? so how do you? and i have a new bf! HELP

ok well i was always afraid of kissing a girl / making out and actually tonight was the first i made out with my girlfriend =].
but anyways once you start kissing you pretty much know what to do..its kinda like kissing but continuslay without moving your mouths away lol..but once you do it you'll like it =]

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do guys like sex better if the girl is 'tighter' down there? i mean i know they wont care as long as theyre getting some lol... but if they had to choose... would they prefer it?

hmm..everyone was right about the guys will go for anything lol..but truthfully..the guy shouldnt care if he really loves the girl..and the real reason to have sex should be because you love someone..not just because you think its the "thing" to do.
hope i helped :)
x2yankeesfan2x

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I've never given a BJ before, and my boyrfriend asked me to give him one and I am totally ok with that. The only thing is I really don't know how. I don't want to screw up or something either.

hey..well the usual way would be to make him comfortable..like on a bed or in a chair..and if you feel more comfortable with your clothes on leave them on..but if you feel ok with taking them off..that would be better because it was make him feel better.and you pretty much just go down and up with your mouth and you can touch him around his areas...dont be afraid just do what you feel is right. (but what ever you do dont leave him in mid orgasm! lol..especially if you dont want to swallow..make sure you continue with your hand as fast as possibe.) but swallowing will make him happier (just for some weird reasons).

hope i helped :)

ps. just do what feels right

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So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while, and even before we dated we were extremely close. We've been talking about sex lately. We both love each other, and I want him to be the one I lose my virginity to. However, I feel like I'm ready, but I don't know how long to wait to have sex. How long, in your opinion, should a couple wait to have sex?
I'm 17/f if that helps any.

hey..well im not going to go off and recommend you to have sex.Though if you feel you are ready and you want to be with him,and your sure you love him then i would say its ok.but make sure your ready first before doing anything..its always better to think first..rather then to do something a regret it later. :)

ps.you'll know when the time is right.
if you need to know how to,i would think the most romantic way to would be to start kissing then eventually move further.

hope i helped :)

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Hi....I want 2 noe how i can tease my b/f!!!! There has been several times when we are talkin on da fone n he asks me wen im goin 2 tease him!!!! N i play it off by tellin him when i feel lyk it !!! What are things that i can tease him with?? Or what should ii do 2 tease him??

hey..well i few ideas are a lap dance..strip tease..talking dirty..that kinda stuff guys love...(the best thing would probably to do a strip tease till your in your underwear then give him a lap dance).

hope i helped :)
drop me another question if you need more info :)

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15/f

I'm sorry if this question's inappropriate...I masturbate too much, I think. Whenever I get a chance. Is this bad? If so...how can I stop myself from doing it so often?

P.S...I started "doing it" not too long ago.

Masturbation is nothing bad.Especially for a girl,it will help get you ready for sex.If you insert your fingers masturbating it will break the hymen (skinny layer of skin) and it wont hurt as much the 1st time you have sex.If you like it and feel comfortable doing it then dont stop.

x2yankeesfan2x =)

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okay, i have a question about dry sex. how can you get pleasure from having dry sex? like what do you do to get the pleasure? because i dont see how you can get pleasure when you have your clothes on.

well dry sex isnt as pleasuring as regular sex,but it still will feel good because your with the person you love and are showing them how much you love them,but just being safer.
hopee i helped
x2yankeesfan2x

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i recently noticed small bumps on my penile shaft and was wondering if this is normal i have never had sex before and both my parents are STD free can someone tell me what this is?

Well sometimes if you shave by there it will become irriated and little bumps appear but they shuld go away after awhile you just need to stop shaving down there if you are.If you dont shave down there or if you shave down there and they dont go away after you stop shaving down there you should tell your parents and or have a doctor look at it just to me safe.

Hope i helped.

Feel free to ask me a question any time i will answer the question the same day you ask it.

Hope i helped.

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okay so i have this friend (im 13/f-hes 13/m.)he always seems depressed about everything. he says he really depressed and ive tried everythign to help him.he says he knows cutters and im worried that he cuts.he got out of this REALLY deep relationship with my best friend and he was soo happy with her but without her he seems empty and more depressed. he likes a new girl now and that helps...but im not sure how to help him get outta his "I hate life. It's not worth living." mode.and hes not suicidal-just any ideas? thanks a bunch!!! i rate extremely high!!!

Well i would talk to the new girl that he likes and see if she likes him.Try to cheer him up.
I know how he's feeling it hurts when you get out of a relationship.

Hope i helped.

Feel free to ask me a question any time.I will answer the question the same day that you ask it.

Hope i helped.


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