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yes im pretty sure the white stuff was from me.\
we did it for a minute or 2 and than stoped.
we did it right after my period which i got around july4th should i be worried?? ):
thanks

honestly I can't say for sure.
But you know how a guy can cum?
Well some girls can too.
That may be it.

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Me and my boyfriend had sex last week, it was only for two minutes and he noticed weird white stuff on me , we checked the condom. and it didnt break whatsoever their werent any holes in it at all because we really checked and he was also really dry and didnt bust at all. should i be worried, was the white stuff from me?

Okay, so maybe I'm wrong, but I think the 2 answers below won't help you much because it doesn't answer much of your question.
Since you had sex, there's always that small chance.
But the white stuff, was it outside the condom?
Because it is possible that it was from YOU not him.
Message me more about it if you want.

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Oh kay.. lol.
well, im 14/female.

sooo, i lost my virginity to this guy back in march, he was 17 at the time. well, me and him before we had sex had hooked up numerous times, but after we had sex, he like just stoped talking to me.... ! it hurt ause i did give him my virginity and he was a freaking dick about it, but w.e i got over it.

then not so long ago i found out by my friend that he has done that to alot of virgins, hit it and quit it :/

anywaysss. i dont hold grudges, so when he said sorry about a month after we had sex i accepted it.

we talked from time to time very briefly. and then after i while we never talked! and just yesterday he wrote me a message out of no where.

what do you think he wants from me? (:
thanks for tha help.

ohhh, and we only had sex once but he is exstreamlyyy sexy, ahah. if he wants to do it again should i?

To be brutally honest, most older guys are typically only be interested in younger girls for sex (or at least some type of sexual activities).
Every guy wants to be your first; they want to be able to say: "Yeah buddy I took her virginity".

I know not all guys are like this, but quite honestly, a lot of them are. Even guys your own age.

Hell, I actually know a guy (I stay as far away from him as possible) who for over a year now has been trying to get me to have sex with him. He tried doing the same to my friend. Well, we have a mutual friend, who once she did, he ditched.
And he actually keeps track, he's 19 and he's chucked 87 girls. It's pretty disguisting.

I honestly really think he'll just want a bootycall, but hey, maybe I'm wrong. I don't know this guy, but from the sounds of it, chances are I'm not.

Whatever happens, don't have sex with him again. He used you & hurt you, and you should find someone who deserves you, and won't do that.

Good luck & message me if you need anything else :)

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does sex take your virginity like tampons?

can someone tell if you had sex?

I agree with the person below me, but technically, tampons won't take your virginity. And even so, your hymen can break without sex or tampons, especially during sports.

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Ok so if I want my sex to be smooth and painless, could I use a large dildo to stretch my vagina? How much should I use it?

it's MUCH easier (painwise)if you're more relaxed and calm your first time.

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Okay, well Im 17 and going on the birth control pill but I don't know how to take it. Im going on Levlen ED pills and its a 21 day with 7 inactive. How do i take it? Is there a calender I could use with the coloured days of when to take and stop? Also, Im planning on going to my boyfriend's house in 13 days so is there any way i can delay my periods by then??

In the box should be an information/directions pamphlet. It'll have A LOT to read, but when I started mine, it's what I did cause I had NO idea what to do, and cause every brand is different, I can't tell you exactly.
Hope it helped. Message me if you have need anything else. =)

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15/f
So I shaved "Down there" just because like, I was curious and stuff. So now its like thereare little red bumps, and they're kind of itchy so I looked up this stuff and "Pubic Lice" came up. Can you get pubci lice from shaving? Also, a while back my sex ed teacher said "If you shave and you get red bumps and stuff its easier to get STD's" Is that true?! Help.

Well for one, shaving can actually help GET RID of pubic lice. And it's actually really common to get those red bumps, they're razor burns, so just make sure to use something while you shave: some people use shaving cream, conditioner (like the stuff for your hair, it works on legs too), or just a lot of plain soap.

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This is an emergency...
Im gaining so much weight from taking "the pill" so anyone or anybody kno any diff type of birth control method that doesn't make u gain weight and makes u have fewer menstrual periods? Please need help asap!
Thanx so much in advance!

I'm on tricyclen-lo, and I haven't gained any weight at all. If anything, I think I may have lost weight. Not once have I felt bloated, or sick, or had any bad side-effects.

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Whenever I masturbate, I have an orgasm, but when I have sex with my boyfriend, I don't. It feels good but I never hit that point. I can't tell him because then he would know that I faked it every time but I want to be able to orgasm from him..any suggestions? I tried focusing really hard on how good it felt, but it wasn't much help.

This may not help much, but when you're having sex, relax more. If you focus too much on having the orgasm, you won't be able to because it's like you're trying to pressure yourself to have one. Also, if you know where you're spot is (assuming you have one) during sex you can subtly move/shift your hips or whatever you need to so that it helps him without having to say "Like this or here" kinda thing.

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