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yea she does and she says i'm good...the best she's ever had...so i guess I'm ok there then...but that still doesn't help my problem! I wanna finish sex! I wanna be able to stay hard the entire time! (link)
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shes not lieing then well hoepfully not.why dont u try role play? and while having sex think about really dirty thoughts that you want to do to her.
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yea she does and she says i'm good...the best she's ever had...so i guess I'm ok there then...but that still doesn't help my problem! I wanna finish sex! I wanna be able to stay hard the entire time! (link)
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shes not lieing then hoepfully not.why dont u try role play? and while having sex think about really dirty thoughts that you want to do to her.
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no i was not molested as a child and yes i do worry that i'm not big enough or good enough all the time... i never feel good enough because she's so amazing and good looking...and i'm...not
what should i do? (link)
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well you should feel happy shes with you. If she didnt wanna be w/ you she would hvae left you by now. She sounds like she loves you becuse most gurls are very shalow and are stuck on them selves and would have left the guy if they werent meetin up to there needs. dont be so hard on your self because if yur not happy with yur self then yur gonna think shes not happy either but by the sounds of it shes happy bein with you. and does she want you wen u alone? like does she want to still have sex wit you? and have u had sex with her long enough for her to determine if yur good or not???
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Hey my name is Tyler.
I love my gf a lot and we tried to have sex...I lost my erection in the middle of it. And now every time we try to do it it happens. It doesn't happen when she gives me oral sex. But i get so worried that I'm going to lose my erection when we have sex that i do lose it!
Now to make matters worse my gf keeps arguing w/ me about it! I just need somebody to help me get through it! She doesn't understand how much stress it puts on me! She thinks that I don't want her when i rly do! I don't want to lose her over this...i just wish that she could understand...someone help me! (link)
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hey i was thinking.. are you worried about anything? like if your big enough or good enough? and just talk to ur gf and be supportive of her too. she probably hates to see you like this and probably thinks its her. and you dont have an erection problem if you can be erect durring oral. if you had a problem it would never be hard.
another possibliblity is that were you molested as a child? Sometimes you don't remember only certain parts of you remember.. that can be a cause of not being able to get it erect..
get back to me.
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i like to play with myself while i watch a girl eat another girl out but i dont like girls i like guys what do i do please help me (link)
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its totally normal for you to like to watch gurl on gurl action it dosent mean your gay or bi i have a lot of gurlfriends who watch it and there not bi and even if you were whats wrong with keeping you opiotions open im not gay or bi but i love to watch gurl on gurl it gets me going more than just regular so dont worry hope i helped sorry it took so long to write bac
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i have had two sexual partners and i have not enjoyed sex with either of them! if it goes for too long i end up becoming unlubricated and we cant continue its really embarassing! although i can bring myself to orgasm, i dont know whats going on and i dont want my boyfriend to think its him when it actually happens with all guys (link)
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you only had 2 people so its not with all guys maybe they really dont know what there doing and they need to learn and another thing do you masterbate its a known study that some women who dont masterbate never orgasm i kid you not how can someone please you when you never pleased your self i hope i helped and if its neither than try new ways you know maybe do more four play hope i helped
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My boyfriend and I have been debating about whether or not sperm is still active when it hits air. Recently we've had sex (we use a condom) sperm will be on me or him and we have been really really worried (paranoid) that it will travel into my vagina and make me pregnant. I've recently heard that once sperm hits the air it's dead. True? (cant stop thinking that i could be pregnant!)
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yes thought the same thing but it doesnt die when it hits air sperm stays alive for 48hrs so no its not true sperm does not die when it hits the air i hope i helped
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Okay..me and my boyfriend have been having sex over 1 year now..and he's been wanting to cum in me..i use birth control...and i was wanting to be extra careful with the vaginal contraceptive films..if you know what they are..they are like girl condoms..ive never used one. and i was wondering what the chances are if i use those and birthcontrol...and what do i do? (link)
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well it seems to mean that you are being extra careful and if you have a womans condoms and birthcontrol well its better than just having one or the other or nothing at all but just remeber no method is 100% effective but hey your doing what you can better safe than sorry
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Can you give me good ideas to do instead of sex? Like foreplay sort of.. I don’t want to have sex with my boyfriend for a long time, and until then I want to fool around. I just don’t want to have intercourse. So, any ideas would be great!
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no problem smart thinking play like strip poker tease the hell out him lol make him cant wait tickile him in not so approprite ways dry hump and you know make up little games and things that will not only get you going but him as well fingering handjobs blowjobs and eating out but you dont have to do it until your ready you can watch porn toghether watch eachother masterbate there are plenty of things you can do without having sex and hey it can all be fun i hope i helpd thanx for your question love to here from you again
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Hey. I'm 14, and I masturbate once every couple of days. Is this bad? Does this have any effect on my health? (link)
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hell no its not bad i masterbate every day almost and hey whenever it floats my baot masterbate as much as you want its completely normal
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hi, i was wondering, how big/wide does the guy have o be to pleasure the girl (like for it to feel good for her/moaning etc.) (link)
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honey sometimes size dont matter as long as you know how to work it some guys are huge and i had pple tell me that they didnt feel anything it sux but they guys who are not packing i had a few friends say hey it doesnt matter he was great so you see sometimes size doesnt matter it depends how you work it i hope i helped
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Any tips for giving head?
I think I got it down, but once the guy cums..
Is it bad.. to keep pleasuring them?
[I've heard stories.. that it hurts the guy?]
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sometimes it hurts but if the guy doesnt complain than whats the problem you know and i think its kidda a good kind of hurt if your really that worried about than stop when they cum and if they have a problem with it screw them your the ones on your knees, lol
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I was with my boyfriend, and we were just in the mood, right? And he kind of stuck his dick in me, but pulled right out. It was between 2-5 seconds. The thing is he says he didn't cum, but we don't really know. But would you really know if the sperm got out?
Is there any chance I might be pregnant?
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yes there is a chance although it was only that little bit of time weather he came or not he could of still pre-cumed and no matter what anybody tells you YOU CAN GET PREGENT ON PRE-CUM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but since it really wasnt that long i dout you are but there is always a chance either get a preg test or wait it out and hope for the best! good luck and remeber even though you guys are playing around it's always safer to wear a condom
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my boyfriend and i had anal sex and i kind of pooped a little....it was on the condom and he was like "you pooped". i was so embarrased but does that happen often. (link)
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of course i was reading an article on it and i seen it on the sex talk show both actually with talk sex with dr.drew and with sue both seprate shows but anyway its 100%normal many many many people have done it "pooped"while having anal sex it completely natural and if he cant except it than fuck him he wont get anywhere beging immature so dont worry
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how many times does a teenage boy think about sex in a day. im a boy, but its not like im going to count, but im sure some sad psychologist has, so im wandering, what are the guys findnings? jus curious (link)
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teenage boy im not sure but its normal anyway i was reading an article about it and a guy decided to keep a diary about how many times he thinks about sex in 24hrs and he recorded 265 times in a day which a women did the same thing and recorded about 165 times a day hey im 17f and still a virgin and think about sex enough not to count lol but i hope i answered your question
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So my bf fingered me and have me oral...
My question is, i don't know if i had an organism or not? There wasn't a time that it felt really really good, and if it would feel good it was for like one second then stop
Also I heard that if you rub ur clift it will make a big differences, he said that he couldn't fine/see mine...and i have no idea what i'm really looking for, can someone help?
And how come it didn't feel good, && please don't tell me to feel myself for what feels good and what dosn't (link)
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its true though i know you dont want to hear it but its a known fact that if a woman cant pleasure herself its hard for anybody to make her organsm but all that aside you didnt have an organsm because, you'd know if you had an orgasm face the truth honey he fucking sucked hopefully he can get better and if you meant that he said he couldnt find your clitours than maybe he needs a little lesson hopefully practice makes perfect and if he cant get on his own give him a few pointers theres nothing sexyer than a gurl who is passionate and knows what she wants lol
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ok so me and my b/f had sex like 4 times and he didnt wear a condom.my falt b/c i kinda talked him in to it. the last time we did it after he pulled it out he cummed like 5 secons later. its kinda scaring me that im pregnant but i havent been throwing up or feeling symtoms of it. i also got on the dilermia at kingsisland and i guess would of killed the baby if there was a chance of me being pregnant. im also to young 2 get a test and will not tell my mom so plz help (link)
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well honey are you sure your pregnet if not try to relax do you have any older friends that can buy you a pregnacy test in rite aid or really any drug store and to be honest i dont think you really need to be a certin age to buy one but about not telling your mom if shes the only way you can know for sure maybe its wise that you let her in plus if you are pregent im pretty sure she'll notice in the next months you know sorry i hope i helped and remeber there are ways to prevent this problem so use them and guys dont always pull out fast enough goodluck
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i have been having sex with my boyfriend for over a month now. we have sex just about 6 times a week. i have yet to orgasm. we are trying. but what is something that i could do to help out? and i have never masterbated or experienced an orgasm. i would like to experience one. haha
just some kind of tip for us. thanks. (link)
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its actually a known fact no lie that if you dont masterbate its harder for a women to get an orgasim so what are you waiting for pet that kitty ha ha how do you expect somebody to give you an orgasm when you cant even do it yourself find you spots and guide him and i also 4 play sex helps but honey masterbate i have no shame in my game lol keep it real lol and if you tips on how my advice colume is always open hope i helped goodluck
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15/m.... me and my boyfriend (16/m) were having sex and he had a condom on. During the sex, which was my first time, and I loved it, his condom came off and when he pulled his dick out the condom wasn't there and we couldn't find it.. like I don't even feel it.
What should I do? (link)
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well since it says m on both ages im going to assume that your both males and you said that you couldnt feel the condom well i dont think its you know in the ass because i dont think you can even go up that far maybe it fell off on the bed or whatever an if you didnt shit it out already i dout its still up there lol but eighter way if your that worried about c a docter i hope i helped goodluck oh p.s. you might want to get better condoms and if your not both males than also c a doctor
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pplease give me tips on how to grind at dances and clubs. PLEASE ILL RATE U EXTEREMLY HIGH =] (link)
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easier do ur thing rub up aganist him dance sexy make him want you and tease tease tease but not to the point that your practially humping him you know so sexy dancing. if you need help watch mtv
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