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Well me and my boyfriend yes the Jeff guy we started dating and well he is wanting to get "serious" and im cool with that as long as we dont have sex. I promised everyone, me and God also i would wait until i was married. But what do i do if he wants to have sex? FYI im 13 1/2 and hes 14. I dont think im old enough but all my friends do it but idk... I mean its okay to fool around and have some fun but i dont want him to take it farther than that. Its just too much for me to take in right now. I mean i "want" to have sex sooo badly but i dont want to break my promise, or my cherry....yet...... im in eight grade and all but i just reallyyyyy donntttt knooowwwww............. (link)
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definitely wait!trust me I've ben there...he pressured me into doing it and once we did everything changed.He became more distant and our initial "liking feeling" had changed too and not for the best. 2 weeks later he broke up with me.I regret what I did so so so much and I wish I could change what happened, but I can't.If I were you I would wait and if he really likes you he won't pressure you into doing something you aren't ready for.You have plenty of time to do that when you're married.Don't be like me and lose your virginity(which is a very special thing)to someone you may or may not be with in the future.
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